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Off Topic : 1) When Does a software engineer start financial planning for retirement since the our Career span is only 15-20 years on average.
2) How much and which schemes to invest to mitigate the risk?
3) How much do we need for retirement? Tata Consultancy Infosys Mindtree IBM Wipro Capgemini Cognizant HCL Technologies
Could anyone kindly tell me about the Investment Management and Private Equity Audit Group at Deloitte? 1. Work Life Balance (Is it worst than the ordinary Big 4 WLB?) 2. Is it an entirely different audit from commercial/retail audits (think account balances etc.) 3. Difficult to learn how to audit clients in this industry without prior experience in the industry?(been doing commercial audits for 3 years) 4. Are there relatively good exit opportunities for this audit group? Deloitte PwC EY
McKinsey & Company Has any industry experienced candidates pivot to MBB Engagement Manager before? My roommate works at FAANG as Senior Analyst (Ops, 6+ YOE) and was approached by McKinsey & Company recruiter for an EM role. He hasn’t done consulting before. Would this be too much of a risk? His goal is to pivot to PE S&O eventually.
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He wants to stop using condoms but it’s not going anywhere
Haha, Truth hurts
It means he doesn’t see you as someone to have a long term relationship with but the sex is better than he is going to get anywhere else in the meantime
This is an excuse to convince you to have continuous unprotected sex with him. This is textbook case of he’s using you until he wants to move on to some other girl he can convince to do the same.
Think long and hard about this. If you never met this guy, what would YOU want in your life right now? Are you at a point where you’ve felt like you haven’t explored sex and want a stable partner to do so (studies show it’s easier for women to orgasm with a consistent partner vs one night stands) but don’t have time/want everything that comes with a full relationship commitment bc you’re focusing on other stuff in your life right now? Or do you feel like you’ve been through your share of casual sex and are looking for a full relationship because you need to start thinking about who you want to spend your life with?
You need to decided what YOU need. If you’re in the first scenario I described then it sounds like what he wants is what you and and you’re fine.
If you’re not in that first scenario then he’s not going to work for you. If you want a relationship it’s going to be difficult to be having sex with him while you’re also dating other people looking for someone who wants a relationship as you would have to either lie and not be sexually exclusive (as you get to know someone to see if you want to be in a long term relationship you’ll want to have sec before committing long term) or you’ll be truthful and scare off the new potential guy who will be extremely skeptical that you aren’t developing feelings for someone who is the only person you’re constantly having sec with (and they’d be right to be skeptical). Don’t go down this path, it’s wastes your time if you’re actually looking for a emotionally invested long term relationship.
This is an amazing, comprehensive and balanced response. Kudos to you.
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My man just wants FWB y’all gotta chill out
FWB doesn't get you exclusive status with me.
FWB is only slightly less casual than a ONS, meaning not meant to be a monogamous status. Condoms mandatory.
He doesn't want to wonder where you've been when he's not around but he'll leave when he finds something he likes better. He's not worth your time.
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It means, you better use him better than he is using you!
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Surprised?
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Exclusive FWB till he finds the next
The “with you” is silent.
It means he’s lying to you.
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Tell that wanker to go to hell
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It means he doesnt have many more options around and is jealous if you have, but doesnt want to move together and do couple stuff since all he wants is already covered.
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It means this won’t turn into a relationship. If you are looking for that, then time to move on.
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He wants you to remain monogamous for his benefit but don’t count on him doing so because you aren’t the one for him.
Wants the milk for free
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To me, this means that he isn’t ready to move in or marry anyone in the foreseeable future, but that he takes sexual health seriously. I’ve dated people where this would have been fine.
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I don’t understand why everyone is jumping on him and assuming the worst. I’m all for people who are clear about their expectations upfront so you can self-select out if it’s not for you. IMO this guy is doing the right thing.
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If that's the d**k you wanna ride, there isn't an issue.
If not, you can do better.
It means if you’re looking for a serious relationship run for the hills.
He wants to service your kitty and not meet the family
Both are exclusive? Or just you?
He wants you to act like a girlfriend to him, while he doesn't invest any emotional energy into you.