What time do your kids go to bed? Has it changed over time? How can you and spouse maintain a good marriage?

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8:30ish. Only have a 2 year old sooo 🤷‍♂️. There is another post up right now about being in a rut. Take a look at that post.

My kids go to bed waaay too late. Bedtime lasts for hours. Our oldest (who doesn’t nap) is asleep by 9-9:15. Our youngest (who still takes 2 hour naps at daycare) is usually fighting us until 10:30. It makes it impossible to maintain a healthy marriage (not to mention putting strain on work and own mental sanity)

Story of our life too 😒

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Put down in crib at 7 pm and is typically out by 8 . Does about 2.5- 3 hr mid day nap. Up by 7:30 am most days. 2 year old.

8 - 8.30 is the norm. Kids are 9&7 but still need sleep and gives us a little time without them. When they are being great and nothing big in the Am we let it slide later.

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