Wife and I both in consulting at the same firm. We are in a particularly busy season and have been for a few months. Tips to keep fun and romance when we are both stretched thin with work and a newborn?

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A little office hanky panky?

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Maybe a group sport with other adults like pickleball

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Lets us discuss why Indian companies expects/forces/ us to work more than 9 hours but in timesheet we have to fill 8.
Managers schedule meeting after office hours and expects us to be available always.

Sorry to say this but I have seen only Indians who work extra hours. What's even funny is that the upper management laugh at foreigners who work exactly 8hours.

Should we not change our mentality?
What should we do to not follow this anymore?

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Hi Sharks,

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Tech stack: Azure data factory, data lake, Azure databricks, Logic App, SQL, Pyspark (basic)


Offer:

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Optum - 16 Fixed + 15% variable + pf (offer letter is not received yet)

LTIMindtree: 11 LPA Fixed only(can revise the offer based on the latest offer)

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Thanks in Advance!

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Hi Fishes,
My LWD is 7th July and I don't have offer from product based company. I prefer WLB over more CTC.
Request you please suggest some product based or good work life balance companies

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