Wife got a positive pregnancy test today. 2nd baby on the way. I’m excited but also feeling pretty numb. Recent job changes, about to move house. Any advice?

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You got 9 months to prepare. Don’t stress.

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Trite as it may sound, things have a way of working out. Simply take them as they come. Congratulations to the 3 of you!

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Congrats ! Just take it one day at a time

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Advice on the job changes, new house or the baby?
Baby: Congrats 👏
New house: Nice! More space for an even bigger family!
Job change: 👏 👏! Great for you in these times of recession/inflation. But don't mess it up. You've got a baby on the way and a new mortgage to pay!

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Enjoy it! Having kids is so much fun but so much work. It’ll work out - enjoy it and don’t stress.

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It’ll work out! Just take the moment to be happy and grateful! 🙏

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Congratulations; you got this! Change is good and it’s about to get a lot more exciting!

All the best!

Congrats. Was in similar situation last year/this year except it was our fifth. As well as the oldest starting college. You can handle it.

Congratulations!! Second is easier than the first . You'll be great.

It is ok to be nervous, after all, now you know what is coming your way. On the other hand, all these life changes are good reminders that you are indeed still living! Congratulations.

We got our first positive test last week. Super excited here. Been trying for about half a year so we’re ready for it.

Congratulations 🍾. Relax - You have plenty of time to move and settle into new job before baby comes.

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