Work is burning me out. My baby is not sleeping. The baby only wants me. I haven’t slept longer than 3 hours in months. I am so tired. Have to work during vacation in a couple weeks because that’s our lot this year. Send energy pls 😩

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have you considered looking for another job and sleep training? Or sleep consultant? Hope you feel better - I was in the same boat and I recently changed job so at least it’s much better on that front.

We did sleep training at 3 months old - not the best practice for some parents but it worked out for us as we are both working parents… but I also exclusively pumped as baby couldn’t latch well. Nursing def makes it harder to sleep train. There are many companies still do remote setting - maybe a good idea to keep an open eye. ♥️

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Good luck and be easy on yourself. Do what’s required of you over the holidays and no more. Focus on being with your family and resting when you can. Working with young kiddos is really hard but it’ll get better. Second the sleep training bit. Remember, you’re the best mommy for your baby.

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