Would you try to show interest in a woman coworker if you aren’t sure if she is queer? I just can’t break out of the friend mold which probably means there’s nothing there but I can’t even ask

Hi there!!

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I just want to say that I'm queer and married, in a Cis-hetero passing relationship 🤭

Do we have to talk about dating like all the time?

Can't we talk about other stuff? Like promoting THE AGENDA (jk)

No, but FR let's talk about being open and accepted in the workplace? How did you do that? How (un) friendly is the work environment?

Thankyaaaaaaaalll 😘😘😘

Nothing sexier than an attractive man with a full head of gray hair.

My partner is unstable, refuses to take their meds. Regularly snaps and lashes out at me. Im leaving and I feel compelled to tell HR for my replacement’s sake. Am I out of line?

a high up male executive told a male employee to stop interrupting when he repeatedly spoke over a female employee in a meeting today. 👏👏👏

are you open about your sobriety with colleagues?

Should I shave my beard for MBA interviews?

Signed up for a matchmaking service a couple months ago after getting tired of the apps. And while I’ve been underwhelmed with their process so far, I finally have my first match date this weekend. Haven’t been on a date since pre-pandemic. And never been on a true blind date like this. Wish me luck.

Hey Nagarrians,

I have a crush on a girl in our office...
We sat together earlier in March once in office, but didn't talked to her much as she was with her team mates(she is in another team/project)

We follow each other on yammer but not sure if she still recognise me.

How to initiate conversation virtually with her?

Help!!!

What's your date of Jalsa??

Just discovered a public slack channel (that very much should have been private) that a few women at my work have been using to bitch about the co-workers they don’t like. There’s a lot of very mean posts about several of the CDs, account people, producers etc. There’s quite a few hateful posts about me and my partner too 🙈 should I tell them?

R single Korean girls less interested in dating single dads compared to white girls?

Senior revving up to manager promo. Only nervous about one thing at the manager level which is having to answer pointed “Why??” questions from higher up clients on live calls. Any one else work through something like this? I’d appreciate any tips or suggestions as I really suck at dealing with unexpected push back.

I recently asked everyone’s age filters on dating apps and there were some mentions of fear of baggage and that’s why you don’t date older than X. What baggage are you afraid of? Ex spouses? Kids from prior relationships? What is it?

Late twenties M here. I like to travel, go on hikes and am pretty easy going. Any f wants to chat and see how it goes?

If you don’t have a CD above you and you are doing the work, do you just send it off or do you ask other creatives for their take? Seems weird to just do work and present it without a gut check from somewhere.

Already spoke with a partner who wanted something done this morning for him to review and then we discuss again. Sent it to him about 4 hours ago. Should take him half an hour to review max. At what point can I check in with him to see when we can catch up so I’m not waiting in the office all day?

Shoutout to the guy singing on the toilet in the client restroom 🎶

What's the best way to motivate a poorly performing intern?

I work in the Title IX area, and would love to hear from anyone who is working with students dealing with sexual or other kind of harassment between students, and how to improve that climate.

(1) What are your experiences with Regeneron? Burn and churn culture or reasonable people you would work with long term? (2) what BC/TC would you target for AD within global development?

Any clue if Oracle India will renegotiate for offer if counter offer is provided?

Interning this summer in TC. Any suggestions on best pants to wear? Heard good things about lulu commission but want other opinions. Thanks in advance!

ACD/writer level freelancer? Have awards and new business pitch experience I’m based in Denver/Boulder.

How many people get promoted to S1 from A2? Didn’t do well in A1.

Any NY state plaintiffs lawyers regularly handle $25k policy MVA cases? Any tips for profitably handling these? Thanks!

I’m so bad at writing the background/ facts section for briefs… it always gets heavily edited and no one is giving me constructive feedback other than “advocate more”. In contrast, my legal argument section is generally without edits. For context, first defense lit job post appellate clerkship. Is this normal?? Any tips for getting better other than “advocating more”?

I love when randomly talking to a straight man and they out of nowhere say “I have a girlfriend” all shaky and nervous. It gives DL guys in sweatpants tease and that I’m doing something right 😂

I just joined 2months back ic3, am I eligible for hike this year, is there minimum number of days to be served for appraisal?

Got an offer for 60k pounds + bonus for London location at Sr Consultant level in FS industry. How good/bad is the offer? Please suggest.

CCTC: 24lpa in India
Workex post MBA: 3.5 yrs
Total workex: 6.5 yrs

Interested in grant management for education /non-profit organizations. Gut check?

Newly minted consultant here looking for financial advice.

So I just moved to consulting after B school, and It's more money than I've made my entire life. After paying for rent and living expenses, I have 6000$ left over every month. My student loan payments are about 1200/month at 7% interest. I still owe another 95K on my loan. I have the option to pay more every month and reduce my overall interest paid.
Currently I put about 3000 towards my loan and 3000 towards my savings. Cont'd...

Just on boarding, who will evaluate your performance and how do they know how you performed if you are not working directly with them？ I assume we will work on different clients throughout the year instead of a fixed team？

BakerTilly people, what application do you use to prepare your financial statements? Do you use word/excel?

How do you invest and save for your children? I’m thinking about setting them up with custodial brokerage accounts but don’t want them to have a heyday at 18. Did you create irrevocable trusts or?? They are too young for earned income and I don’t own a business so no IRA investing opportunities here.

Hello Guys,

Could please name the PSU BANK projects with EY ?
How is the work load in PSU projects ?

Yay thanks for starting this bowl!!

I love the name of this group but also wish it was “out and about”. But also I know that a lot of us aren’t out to the world yet (including myself)

Any Indian bi here?

So.. I plussed this group up in the main lgbt group. Prepare for, well, not much …
🤷🏻‍♀️🏳️‍⚧️

Anyone living in Chicago??

What's your favourite queer media? Books, movies, podcasts, etc.

Do you feel explicitly femme / butch / futch / stud ? I feel like I’m not femme or butch and I’d be more butch personality wise in a relationship but definitely more of a futch / soft butch physically? Getting a better handle on this might make me better able to find the right folks for me, dating wise... I know some people are super strict about their “type”

Hi ! Anyone is Orlando this week? 🙋🏻‍♀️ here .

Joined a book club and reading Detransition Baby. Seeing myself on literally Every. Single. Page. Thoughts on the book?

Trans peeps, especially those not yet socially transitioned, what are you doing for tdov?
🏳️‍⚧️🙅🏻‍♀️

For the trans and non-binary pals in this bowl - happy trans awareness week 💖💙 to celebrate I hope you are all staying aware of your beautiful selves!

Hello 👋 Do you want a referral to Accenture? DM me a link to the job post and I’ll be happy to help. 🏳️‍🌈

Any great queer bars in Berkeley/Oakland? Feeling spoiled by Aloho in DC but preparing for a move to the bay and want to check out the scene

Any women here who have dated both men/women/NB, will to chat to me? i'm currently dating a woman and i'm so confused about something TMI to ask anyone in real life, also I'm not out to many. TIA 💛

came out to my boss 🌈

How do you navigate pronouns as nb? I'm extremely tired of being mis-pronouned as her/she. Do you suggest pronouns in email signatures?

What are some issues or conflicts you face at work because of your queer identity?