Surviving A Toxic Workplace

I try to handle my work issues, team issues with ice on my head and respond to any escalation with same approach. But it feels that my boss thinks I am taking things casually because I answers things … more

After leaving your toxic job, if you could say one thing to your toxic boss now, what would it be?

My last job, I knew the company was going to be toxic just 2 days in. My new manager at the time had emailed out a joke that was racially/culturally insensitive. How soon into your role did you start … more

Apparently “good attitude” at work means smiling while doing the job of 3 people, never complaining, and pretending the mandatory overtime is a fun challenge.

When did “attitude” become code for “don’t… more

Do you think the phrase “it’s just business” is an excuse for bad behavior? At my company, that line gets thrown around constantly—to explain layoffs with zero notice, to brush off toxic leadership, e… more

We all have tolerated the toxic environment and negative behaviors associated with being in a bad workplace. What’s one thing you’ll never tolerate in a job again after experiencing toxicity?

Why is it so hard to set boundaries without being seen as “difficult”? I’ve finally started clocking out at 5, not checking my inbox at night, and politely declining extra work that isn’t in my role—a… more

I heard that the universe is accelerating in its expansion and also that language is constantly evolving. So maybe workplace toxicity is the manifestation of the need to start a new company with newer… more

I like the direct people I work with, however, my company has built a culture where most team members are jumping at the chance to catch you slipping up and are waiting to throw you under the bus. It’… more

I once got pulled into a meeting to discuss “professionalism”… because I wore the same black jumper two days in a row. Meanwhile, someone else got away with yelling at interns.

What’s the most ridiculo… more

Oldie but a goodie… if today was your last day on earth… would you want to spend it doing what you’re doing?

I have a criminal conviction, and a foreman in 2021 decided to send a video of me with information of the crime, and information from the parole board. And when I filed a complaint to a project manage… more

Are there any unreasonable expectations or demands placed on employees at your job that create a stressful work environment? The workload at my job is unbearable and no future of it stopping because p… more

Should you voice your opinion at work even if they tell you it’s a safe space? I really think this is a statement for us to get trapped and next thing you know they are letting you go. Thoughts?

You know your job is toxic when you have been off a week and still don’t want to go back! Literally miserable but you know you have to be responsible until something else comes through. However, Happy… more

If you had another job lined up would you quit today or give a 2 week notice? Do you think you should if you have been a toxic environment for a while and do you think they actually do any good? Would… more

There has been so many people leave my workplace this year and it only April it’s insane. Being in a toxic environment has a way of showing itself it appears. Anyone else noticing this even with the e… more

If you saw the warning signs, have you ever warned someone about a toxic workplace? Did they listen?

And with regard to the slamming of narcissists, mental illness is nothing to be ashamed of.

Thinking about going fully remote so I can work at home with more peace, but it would definitely hurt my chances of getting promoted. It’s a tough decision to make, but it might be the right one for m… more

I know there are things to look for but with the recent job postings especially for MLMs and these hard sales job, how do you spot red flags in job interviews now?

We all hate bad work environments and managers. Do you do anything in particular to make sure that you’re not unintentionally creating a toxic environment? Or can you think of anything you wish was do… more

All the effort to leave your current job, did you find that your next job was much better, or did you encounter similar issues?

Ever had a job where taking your full lunch break felt like rebellion? Like, people side eyed you for actually stepping away from your desk.

When did basic breaks become taboo? Do you take your full lu… more

At Robert Half in Woodbridge, NJ, there was a a recruiter in Office Team having an affair with someone from the Technology division. They were both cheating on their spouses. Eventually, the technol… more

I received a compliment at work today and it had a huge impact on me. It’s amazing what effect even a small dose of recognition has on morale. It’s really not that hard to create a positive culture.

I’ve never understood how some managers treat staying late like a badge of honour. If you finish on time, you’re “not going above and beyond” but if you waste hours then work late, you’re praised for dedication.<… more

There's always lessons to be learned and it's usually a negative one from toxic environments. What’s something positive you learned from working in a toxic environment?

How do you rebuild trust in your next job after a toxic one? I finally got out, and while the new place seems normal so far, I can’t help but stay on edge. Every time my manager compliments me, I wond… more

Do you know your leadership style? I’ll go first I’m a servant leader. A servant leader is someone who leads by putting others first. It’s not about having power or control—it’s about listening, suppo… more

Do you think a leader should only be promoted from the ranks?

Why is it that the people who do the least always know the most about “company values”? I’ve seen entire teams held hostage by one person who was terrible at their job but amazing at office politics.

W… more

Do you think companies intentionally let toxicity fester to weed people out? I’ve watched smart, capable coworkers slowly get edged out—not fired, but buried in unreasonable workloads, left out of mee… more

Do you ever experience interactions at work that make you stop and feel bad for the people in their lives? Haha let me explain. I have this Sr. Manager I work with that I can’t help but feel bad for h… more

How do you all handle peers who always want to pick the phone up to talk? I always cringe when I see "quick call"..... 10/10 times its something that can be emailed!!! No I don't want to… more

Ever noticed how some jobs will throw pizza parties or “wellness days” instead of just… paying people fairly or hiring enough staff?

What’s the most ridiculous perk or gesture your workplace used to co… more

I would like to know, how did leaving a toxic job impact your mental health? It’s a tough decision and can change your life.

Raise your hand if you can’t stand when workplaces and colleagues refer to the culture and/or each other as ‘family’? 🙋🏻‍♀️ Share your most toxic workplace ‘family’ experience ⬇️⬇️