29yo lesbian, been out a few years. I feel like no matter what I do I’m destined to be alone :( I am a leftist, dress low key alt, have a job/hobbies/friends, go out, use the apps. Nothing. It’s frustrating bc for dudes, I get catcalled if I walk to the store in sweats. But for girls, I can’t get hit on even when I work out and spend ages putting together an outfit and get super involved in community stuff

Gorgeous night, 36/m, anyone want to meet for a drink?

Hi folks,

I'm looking for all girls accommodations in central Bangalore ( 5-7kms) from Vasanth Nagar.
My preferences would be
-Furnished 1BHK / 1RK/ single room in shared accomodation with attached bath.
-Secure, well connected, elite neighborhood.

About me: workoholic non drinker who loves to travel.

Any leads will be appreciated.

What does a 30% travel requirement mean in a job description? How often do they expect the candidate to travel ?

Looking to learn more about BCG opportunities with OSD/Pentagon anyone have info on positions and travel requirements for fed practice?

Going to take my shot on here:
Does anyone know the name of this Chinese restaurant connected to a run down hotel in DC? Supposed to be one of the few authentic places.
Best Chinese food ever.

We flew back from Ireland today on Delta. Our connecting flight from JFK at 6:10 was cancelled while we were flying over the Atlantic Ocean, and we were rebooked on a 3:40 instead (2.5 hours earlier) but not notified. I received no email, text or app notification of the flight cancellation or the new flight we were placed on, so we missed it. They now cannot get us home tonight and won’t even guarantee they can get us home tomorrow, impacting my work, (cont)…

I recently joined FIL as Lead BA. Is there any chance of on-site travel? Is there any team where on-site movement is easy?

Any folks at MMB/T2 in St. Louis open to connect? Are there many local projects or do you travel most of the time?

Anyone who has been in PA >15 years - I need your tips. I'm in15 years and am exhausted from the sales pressure and travel. No interest in making partner. What keeps you going?

What's dating like in SF? New to the area.

My husband and I are thinking about taking a 6 month career break to travel. Career suicide or worth the risk? For context, I’m a 4th year big law associate (30 years old and no kids).

Can I bring my parents and sibling also in relocation reimbursement and also for the hotel accommodation?

One of my average looking friend was complaining that they are tired of dating ugly people.

New to UR travel portal. I keep seeing that I will get 1.5x back here -- does that mean if I have 20,000 points originally, it becomes 30,000 points in the portal? (cont.)

Anyone know a way to get a cheap flight this coming festive period?

Getting married in September, have a vax only policy for guests. My fiancé’s sister is bringing her unvaccinated spouse to the hotel where all the wedding festivities are being held b/c she is too scared to fly on an airplane without him. I find this incredibly uncomfortable and selfish given it will put me and my fiancé in an uncomfortable position (and it will also put my elderly parents and other vulnerable fam members at risk). Any ideas as to what (if anything) to do?

Is everyone on a date, I’m still working 🥹

Has anyone been offered a status buy-up for 2021. ~$1700 short of United 1k this year and think my travel will increase a good bit starting next year. Think it could make sense, especially given the 2021 thresholds

Recommendations for bachelor party destinations aside from Costa Rica and Mexico City. Preferably under 5 hour flight time from Atlanta outside the US.

Did you grow up in Nashville or move here for work? Just wondering how many in this bowl are native Nashvillians or transplants like me.

How many years did it take you to get promoted to senior software engineer?

Best stocks to buy/DCA into during the continued recession/incoming pain?

Anyone have info on MD comp structures? Salary range? annual bonus? etc? Thx!

Any openings in LTI for Application/Production support ?

Is there any profile which is based on purely SQL and nothing else, no excel/tableau/powerbi task.

Do any NYC golfers know if the Chelsea piers range pricing includes balls? I know they have that automatic teeing system so feels like it would have to.

Agency recruiters, how would you rate today’s market for creatives? Is it more of a freelancers’ market or is it tight for everyone at the moment?

Tired- Bitcoin Lambos. Wired- Bitcoin Teslas

How do I get the Bain Cap Goose discount?

Would you rather take an offer at BCG as a consultant or at Walmart as a Product Manager? Currently at a top 10 MBA program.

I've been thinking about my career a lot lately. I feel like I've hit a wall, and I don't know how to get past it.

I've been at this job for almost 5 years now, and ever since the day I started, there have been problems with my coworkers. It's not just one person—it's everyone in my department, and they all seem to be working against each other instead of together. Should I leave?

What does compensation look like for a second year associate at a personal injury law firm? Please comment if you practice in Los Angeles.

Hi guys,
I got an offer letter from citi bank but the HR said its not confirmed yet. It will be confirmed after doing the background verification. How harsh is background verufication and when should i expect BGV done and is there aby case of terminating offer due to background verification.
@citibank

Solo trip to Puerto Rico. Any recs? Thanks fam.

Hooked up with a guy I really like in Montreal, too bad I live in the States :(

Being forced onto banking project with no finance background or cultural leanings—tips? 🥴

Doctor rec’s? I was in DC before and I used to go to Whitman Walker, an LGBT focused primary care clinic, clean, efficient and friendly, and they understood the LGBT needs, like PrEP, very well, which is mainly what I need from my PCP. Is there such a thing in NYC?

Ryan Murphy is the new Aaron Spelling. Big rich producer making money off of cheesy shlock. I guess you can’t take the Indiana out of the boy. Heart’s in the right place though. Bless his heart.

How many of you are in an interracial relationship? And what are yours and your partner's ethnicities?Just wanted to do a quick poll :)

I’m worried that my voice, communication style, and body language comes across as too effeminate for our straight clients and peers. I’m transitioning to sales now and am insecure that my personality and appearance may hinder sales gen? Client industry is very old school. Can LGBT partners//Ds/MDs chime in how they managed the same transition?

Who here have abs 😬

Well I recently told a guy I have been seeing I have HSV-2. We have not yet been physical but it’s been heading that direction. Man I hate this part - waiting to see what his response will be after he researches and talks to his doctor. I’m on daily meds which help reduce transmission risk. You’d think that since HSV-2 affects 20% of Americans and likely a higher % of gay men, there would be less taboo but it’s hardly ever talked about. Anyone else in my shoes? Or had it disclosed to them?

How do you define clingy? Female perspective pls🥺

I feel like being gay just adds another layer of difficulty while trying to date in consulting.

Seattle vs San Diego?

My brother-in-law (age 30) told us recently that he is transgender. How can we support him? (‘Him’ as we haven’t discussed pronouns yet). It was a surprise to us!

Hey. Is anyone here from Capgemini? Looking forward to interact.

Matched with a guy on Tinder. Had a great first date. We are stilling chatting on WhatsApp. But he has disappeared from my tinder (presumably, he unmatched with me). Is it typical for ppl to unmatch on Tinder when they are still interested in you?

Who has watched It’s A Sin?

I keep watching Schitt's Creek reruns now and then. It makes me feel warm and mushy, but also super lonely. So tired of being perpetually single. I know it's been posted about here a bunch of times before but it still sucks. Venting and knowing you're not alone, helps a tiny bit. =) Also does anybody else thing Patrick is essentially just a 'too good to be true' fantasy boyfriend Dan Levy dreamed up and put on the show?

Any Deloitte folks going to DU this week?