8 months since I lost my salary job and I’m STILL picking up the pieces of my life.

Gained so much weight. Couldn’t afford healthy food. It was cheap shelf stable stuff or starving. All my time I used to spend working out is now spent working on lowball rates just to break even on rent and insurance. Anxiety rashes, stress, sickness, constantly.

No PR press release of how much “the people are our life force” will cover the fact you screwed over half your agency by quietly laying everyone off.

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Hey - there is absolutely nothing wrong with picking up a job at Starbucks or some other retail/food service place that has benefits to ensure your mental health is in the right place. Do the freelance, low ball stuff on the side or part time if you can get your work to agree to 20-30 hours

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Love this. It's a bad moment not a bad life. So many people are in similar circumstances right now (myself included). Please be kind to yourself

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^ This 10000000%

It sounds like you are burnt out. This won’t solve your situation, but might help your nervous system at least: yoga (community yoga/sliding scale offers at Yoga for the People), EFT Tapping, Insight Timer meditations. I wish you the best, and this too shall pass and you will be able to get back to a stable place, thriving.

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This being the very first post I see after joining the app is very encouraging because this has been my past 6 months exactly. Thank you for sharing and I hope things get better.

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I rage quit a job a couple years ago, had my identity too tied up in work, and read a book that was really helpful: “work won’t love you back”

Its changed my perspective on how I approach work. I still need it, but I don’t look to it as a source of validation beyond my paycheck. I’ve found it to be very healthy

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Sending good thoughts to you.

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Praying that you have a break through. I’m so sorry that you’re going through this.

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