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It isn’t. It’s that the word (like many terms) have been used and abused incorrectly to validate someone’s insecurities and lack of understanding their own emotions.
A distasteful joke to try and arise something out of nothing.
Your friend has some issues. Preferring colors of clothing is harmless just like I can say I prefer black cars or a black interior.
It isn't.
They’re trying to assert a power dynamic over you to soothe their ego. Ask them to explain themselves
I had a friend like this and while intergenerational trauma at play, it doesn’t make it okay to keep “checking” someone over things that have no significance
Some people are just plain stupid. I like wearing black suits and I am a white person. Does this make me racist?
If you wear a white suit you’re appropriating from Michael Jackson
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With the information provided it wasn't racist. Was there any context that you are omitting?
Be mindful of microaggressions and things like that.
But if the term for a heinous act is used and the intention was not racist… it’s a shirt
Were they being serious? That sounds like something that someone says when they are being silly but don't mean it in a serious way.
I was then told that it was just a joke. And then was sent a racist meme 🤷♀️🤷♀️🤷♀️ feeling so confused