How long after a failed transfer does your stomach and body feel like it’s back to normal? It’s been a little over a week since I got the news that my transfer a few weeks ago didn’t work. But my stomach is still so pooched out and looks pregnant that it makes me cry knowing that’s not the case. Trying to eat clean, tons of long walks, but still feel really bloated and gross.

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Just came to say I’m so sorry to hear about your failed transfer - it can feel emotionally crushing not to mention all the physical side effects you endured to get there. Hugs 🫂

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