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After flying coast to coast for a year, I got a mental breakdown yesterday and can't stop crying in my hotel room last night, I would like to get a new job with higher pay but visa limits my choices

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Just think about how much less those people in tax and assurance made and you'll feel better about yourself.

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Don't cry. You can get a tourist visa, or cite health concerns and get a local project.

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Just leave, it'll be the best thing for you. I'm going through a bout of depression from the same thing, on a visa but I'm changing jobs for sure

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Instead of chasing money, let's chase happiness. Come on guys we can do this together!!

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Pwc chin up, talk to your respurce manager or ppd - dont bottle up

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Take some time off and then decide what you want to do next

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I worked coast to coast once for 7 months. It was horrible. The partner I worked for at the time knew this and she made a point to get me on a local gig for awhile after taking one for the team. Maybe reach out to your leadership and let them know you're reaching the end of the line on going coast to coast. Sounds like you have little to lose and everything to gain. Hang in there. This too shall pass.

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Plus the fact their jobs are repetitive and yours does change after you move on to a new project.

You have breakdowns, you don't get them

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