Any advice on how to become more polished as a nontraditional candidate? Do I do Toastmasters or hire an executive coach in parallel w/ therapy? Do I do what James Earl Jones did to get rid of his stutter by reciting poetry in front of a mirror?

I was invited to interview w/ great companies and made several final rounds, but I was rejected. I think it was b/c I lack polish compared to candidates w/ more desk experience. I hear I'm naturally charismatic and want to reach 100% by maxxing polish.

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Maxxing, you say, with two x's? Haven't heard that term before, and I speak with people all over the country, even internationally. Possibly polish your communication skills?

That means "maxxing out" because there's a character limit when writing.

Okay, do you have any advice on how to polish communication skills? :)

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