Any books you recommend for a new manager to read? I have a team that's historically had a lot of internal conflict and big personalities

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I always recommend “Crucial Conversations” and 7 Habits. They’re both great books, but they can be boring reads…

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I always recommend Radical Candor, it’s available on Amazon

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Dare to Lead by Brené Brown has some GREAT advice on managing team conflict with empathy, highly recommend!

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Radical Candor

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