Any tips on integrating a newborn with your dog. We brought our baby home yesterday, and the dog loves her, but thinks she’s a toy. Our dog also barks incessantly when she cries overwhelming everyone involved. Overall, the issue is that the dog is too excited and energetic because of the baby.

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This is tricky. I’ve heard both good and bad stories on the way this ends - more good than bad. I’d just be as careful as possible. We separated them a lot at the beginning and only let them interact a little when we were around and fully present. Still giving the dog some attention on his own. After a while they got used to each other and things are fine.

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dogmeets_baby on Instagram has good tips

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Agree with EY2, if you have concerns don't give yourself a reason to regret. We were probably on the extreme side of caution but just to give you a sense...

We have an adult rescue with a history of coping problems despite lots of training (a history of skittishness, over exuberance, distrust of strangers in the home).

I know other people have dogs that were chill or careful. Not our pup. He oscillated between anxiousness over new sounds (crying and trying to run outside) to extreme hyperactivity to the point we were worried he was going to hurt our daughter by trampling her or knocking over the bassinet. It seemed like genuine excitement (mixed with anxiety over crying) but it's still a risk.

Our dog got a short prescription of gabapentin from the vet, I desensitized him to baby sounds by playing crying noises on Youtube. He also was isolated in the house for the first two months and my wife and I would take turns hanging out with him. We would do family walks outside or I would take him around the house on leash a few times a day to acclimate to our daughter. He got more used to having a baby in the house; after ~2 months he stopped trying to bulldoze the baby, returned to being a couch potato and he was allowed to stay out with her.

As EY1 and EY2 said they will eventually get along, mine is a toddler now and they are good buddies. Separation at this stage is fine, monitor interactions and don't force it.

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Just put some baby gates in some areas once he gets bigger they will get along.

Thanks. We don’t have much space. It’s just a 2 bedroom townhouse, but it sounds like baby gates are definitely part of the answer

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