Anyone else tell people you’re busy with work in the weekend when you’re really just drained from social interaction and hiding at home?

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Yea, people think I work 80 hours a week. In reality, I work 40 hours and play games for the other 40 hours

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Lay in bed and eat popcorn while watching tv

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Yes

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All the time. I need weekend time to unwind

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No, I have a hobby that I really enjoy that keeps me occupied on the weekends so in fairness, I'm not lying to dodge a commitment. However, I totally would if that weren't the case.

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I actually want to do things with people on the weekend. It’s not until I’m doing it that I remember that it is exhausting.

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I play billiard sports. It's usually with a close friend. We don't talk much. Both introverts.

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I do that all the time. Haha. But unwinding at home is way better than inefficient/less enjoyable social on weekends.

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Me all the time. 👨🏽‍💼

What do you guys do during your alone dodging time?

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Same here

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