Anyone had a mentor whom you looked up to because they were also black and well connected, but they’re flirtatious and inappropriate? How have you handled this uncomfortable situation?

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Damn that sucks that this is still happening. I just had to face it head on and say I’m not into you that way. Being direct may hurt the relationship but doesn’t make you feel uncomfortable anymore setting a boundary

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Ugh is it worth the drama

You can dm me if you need advice and we can keep it all on this app if you want. Sorry that's happening

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Thank you 🙏🏽

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