Baby due end of Jan and wife taking full maternity leave (12 wks) and then back to work. Considering taking paternity (16 wks) after that. How and when do I tell my various teams and file paperwork?

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Cont., curious about timing, how to share with leadership/team, and processes and requirements for filing with HR, etc.

I know a dad who was able to split his time. Just wanted to share that in the event you're interested

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