Best way to start dating. been single for five years and think its time to start looking again. Any ideas? Im 36/M/Wisconsin divorced with children

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South Florida….. it’s like shooting fish in the barrel

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Avoid dating sites at all costs. Wanna meet someone? Focus on pursuing a passion project something that needs to be ticked off your bucket list. Manifestation works best when you are focusing solely on yourself and no one else.

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