Came back from my first tour of duty calling everyone "sir" and "ma'am," I think it's a good habit that shows respect for others regardless of their position in life.

Tips on how to start an upward feedback conversation? The SM on our job is making the team miserable. Not a bad guy, but I think we will all benefit from him being made aware of the team's concerns

Has anyone successfully pursued a relationship with someone they met at work? An MD I am really attracted to has been chasing me, but I am nervous about what the repercussions could be if it doesn't work out. Still, it's tempting

What are some good books to read if I want to learn how to better show up for the team as a manager?

I’ll be asking my last job for a letter of recommendation but I’m not sure who to ask. My boss, who is lovely and would write an amazing LOR. Or my boss's boss who would put minimal effort in but it would have more weight.

Always thought I was an introvert but maybe I’m just drained from a toxic job and haven’t met my type of people. Is that possible?

Poll: What dress code do you follow at your home office?

Has anyone successfully moved laterally in an org to escape a bad boss? How did you do it and how did you handle any political ramifications? (cont)

I learned that I unknowingly helped my coworker with a personal problem, and it made remember that even a short conversation can make all the difference.

My boss is always making last minute changes to my schedule. Adding shifts or asking me to cover for other people. Any advice on how to handle this? I want to be a team player but the last minute changes stress me out.

What is too short (dress/skirt) in the work place?

Heard from me:

“Oh, junior person, you have edits to the monthly activity report 3 days after your deadline to review the report, and after I sent it to the client? How lovely for you."

Got approached by a recruiter for the first time!!! Don’t know why I’ve got my panties in a bunch and I’m super excited haha

What are your tips on convincing a fellow employee not to switch agencies? I really don't want to compete with them

@women in the ME, I’m moving from NYC to Dubai. Is there some things to consider for attire in a business environment or is it the same as in NA? I’m thinking about business travel to other countries like KSA 👀

There’s a senior architect at my firm that’s absolutely toxic as heck but on Fridays, he becomes his alter ego. All like “Happy Friday!” and “you’re very welcome” and “hope you have a fantastic weekend!” No joke, he really is a different person.

What are some essential travel items to request for Christmas/Birthday from family? Also, any recommendations on a good, sturdy, cute briefcase for women?

How do you deal with a manager who expects 3 months of work overnight? I have tried structuring , creating a plan to show him how the activities are being executed. However, he seems to be someone who turns around every other hour to ask ‘Is it done’? I am usually pretty good at managing expectations but having a hard time conveying how unreasonable he is being. Despite being organized, I am coming across as scattered and jumbled since I have been working 15+ hours with no food and break daily

Any thoughts on how do we deal with an incompetent boss who you dont look up to and have no trust that you would ever get credit for the work you would do for him/her? Given that changing the boss is not an option.

One of the executives at my job is really attractive. Sometimes I get “ lost” so I can walk by his office 🤭

Looking to get suits in Bangkok next week - can anyone recommend a spot/describe the process (# of fittings, negotiations, etc.) they went through?

Can i ask for joining Bonus after accepting the offer letter? Had a conversation with HR and was being advised it is difficult but will see what can they do.

Hi Fishes,

Please suggest which one is better ?

INFOSYS (Associate Consultant) 9LPA + 1 Joining Bonus - Bangalore
Statestreet (Cyber Security Engineer) 11 LPA (All Fixed) - Bangalore
Tietoevry (Technical Specialist) 10 LPA (All Fixed)

IAM domain - Azure and Okta. Let me know please. YOE 2.5 years

My h1b got picked up in lottery this year but case hasn’t been processed yet. Meanwhile I also applied for H4ead extension. What happens to it when H1b gets approved?

Hello, can you please tell if I can travel to India, while there is a pending LCA for change of location? I don’t need to get any stamping done, this is my only concern.

How much impact does a rejected L1B and not picked H1B have on a current L1A filing?

Hello all,

What is average salary range for a manager level 2 in tax at PwC AC

Hello all,

Can anyone please confirm the compensation structure at PwC AC/SDC? Like Fixed+var etc..and how much is the average range for each component? I'm looking for ERP technology.

I hope Ac and Sdc are same?

Hello everyone,

I got an offer from infosys for 5.5lpa+75k bonus, & now I have another offer of 7.5k+80k from globallogic. I prefer to join infosys as it is in my home town.
But the catch here is I accepted the offer from infosys, can i talk to HR again to revise my offer as I am expecting at least 6.5lpa. I am afraid if they revoke my current offer also. Yoe:1.5y / cctc:3.85lpa
Please suggest , what is the possibility of the offer getting revise

FAR, what a pain..that’s all

At what point does it not make sense to buy/ build a bigger home? My husband dislikes our house immensely (was his with former wife) and wants to move. Only owes $180k on it, we’ve been together 6 years and thus I’d rather just remodel. It’s the only thing we disagree about - moving or staying. He doesn’t want to invest one more cent in this house.

What is the PTO carryover policy?

Any recruiters in the Charleston, SC area? I'm trying to quietly find another PI firm. Please DM me if so.

Hi

Does anyone know, In citiusTech. Is it possible to shift to different technology..
Currently working in ETL Testing.. I want to shift to Data Engineering domain..
If possible to what will be the process ....

What's the best consulting firms for H1B folks who have studied masters in STEM here? Got a cousin graduating this fall and he needs to know H1B/GC policies.

Do people have ongoing, running text conversations with SO or friends during the workday? My SO thought it was weird at first to not text her throughout the day. What do you people even text about?

Any book suggestions for married couples ?

What's dating like in SF? New to the area.

In many ways, I feel the same as before I enrolled. I don't understand how because I've lived so many things since then, but at the core, I feel like it hasn't affected me. It's weird. Am I missing something?

If given the choice, would you join the miltary again?

How different are the physical requirements for men vs women? I'm thinking of the Navy specifically but would welcome insights from any branch of the military, thanks

Can one become financially stable after being discharged from the military?

I always have faith that everything will make sense, and we will move into a better era. Sometimes it's challenging to maintain that faith, but it's always there.

What is the most realistically portrayed military story in a movie you’ve seen?

Ever since the Ukrainian invasion, I can't sleep well. Anyone else feeling this way?

PTSD It's not a joke, and I wouldn't wish it even on my worst enemy. Best resources / ways to handle this?

If you had to choose between the army and the navy, which one would you choose and why?

Why aren't there any vegan options in the military besides a salad? I wish there was a way to improve this. I find myself having to settle on vegetarianism when serving.

How do you quiet your mind? I find my mind still races at night and I have trouble sleeping

Do you guys think that our country is being heavily militarized?

My cousin is in great shape physically and I know he could get through that part of basic training/boot camp but don't know if he could handle all the yelling because of past trauma he's been through. Thoughts / advice?

Getting disability rated…I retire next year and seeing the doc for all my issues. They’re listed in Genesis under my active issues. Does that automatically count for when I retire or do I need to get appointments addressing these issues again after meeting with the VA?

If anyone here is wondering how to best use their GI Bill... I HIGHLY recommend using the GI Bill comparison tool. Has anyone else here used it??

Do you ever regret pursuing the life of a soldier?

Many movies romanticize the sacrifice of one soldier and leave them as a hero, but I have always thought that I hate that. Why would someone need to lose his life to be a hero? I believe the mere fact that we put our life at risk in service is enough to be a hero

Do you think the military industry is sexist? I met more women in the air force than in other companies and none of them is a very high rank

I feel like I haven't seen the results of our efforts. The Middle East is still a mess. There's a war in Europe we won't take part in. Does anyone else feel this way?

If you were to choose a career different from the military, which one would you choose?