Career has stalled over the past 3 yrs and unclear why, or how to fix it. Fired from MBB as an experienced manager. Up til then I was a rockstar - rave reviews, early promos, etc. (Cont.)

like
Posting as :
works at
You are currently posting as works at
Highlighted IconHIGHLIGHTED

I generally find there to be a number of key skills at the M level that are a pretty substantial differentiator from the SC level, any of which can doom a manager:

1) People management: Quite a few people can lead a team of, say, 2-4 people as a SC, but fail miserably at leading a project team of 15-20 people.

2) Engagement leadership: As a SC, you are often working in a set swimlane and the extent of your strategic involvement is focused on *how* to do a task. As a M, you're generally focused on *what* to do. Making the jump from focusing on the tactical details to the strategic direction of an engagement is a sink or swim change and I've seen many Ms over the years sink.

3) Sales: At the firms I've worked at, Ms generally take on the key leadership roles in the proposal process, whereas SCs tend to lead individual sections of a proposal and are given direction by those above them. I've seen plenty of Ms, both new Ms and those who've been around for a while, struggle with this and saw a firm I worked for lose out on a $25M+ bid because of a new M's ineptitude in leading a major portion of a quick turnaround proposal.

4) Networking: This is true at every level, but it's where I've seen lots of Ms shoot themselves in the feet. Promotions to C and SC, and to a lesser extent, M, are generally a function of putting in the time and being at least average. Once you hit M, you gotta start really networking with the SM+ above you, as you're now often the public face of the firm with clients and can really impact the bottom line for a P through your actions, so the internal expectations from those SM+ level folks really start to be magnified on you as a M. Add in internal politics and this is the stealthy factor that has been a career ender for many, many Ms.

In my anecdotal experience, you can suck at one of those factors and scrape by if you are rock solid in the other three, but if you suck at one and are only passable at another, you're likely on the chopping block no matter how good you are at the other two.

likehelpfulsmart

I agree with this to some degree - switching firms I lost all the political capital and goodwill that my previous high performer rep carried within my network. But I think it's not the only story because it's not only about external perception - I feel like I'm falling short myself as well!

like

I have one piece of advice. Look up a podcast called “Manager Tools” and listen to their first podcast from 2005 titled “Solution to a stalled technical career”. It’s a 20 minute podcast, see if it talks to you.

Same idea, Marshall Goldsmith’s book “What go you here won’t get you there”. But the podcast is a shorter time investment.

https://www.manager-tools.com/2005/06/solution-to-a-stalled-technical-career

like

You’re welcome. I think everyone has to learn this lesson. When I did, you could have knocked me over with a feather.

Recent IconRecent

I feel I am in the same boat. I have been analyzing the issue and the conclusion I'm coming to is that I am completely not motivated by what I do, I despise consulting, the shallowness of it and lack of impact. Thinking about doing a major change. PhD or a senior level in a non-profit organization. But mostly lost in trying to identify next step.

like

OP, Do you feel this plateau you're experiencing is *mostly/primarily* motivation- (i.e. "I know what to do but don't feel like it..."), technical skills- (i.e. "how to do this is escaping me more and more over time..."), or relevance- (i.e. the organization/larger context(s) around me just doesn't see or cannot seem to leverage my capabilities...) related at the root of the state you find yourself in? I know we want *and* rather than *or*, but when I went through similar introspections in the past starting with *one* area allows me to more tangibly take the next steps.

likehelpful

OP, It sounds like you might be more towards the externally-motivated end of the spectrum (unlike me, who's very internal/cerebral/private, etc.). I think what's going to be key therefore is to have others/someone around in whom you can confide with your letdown in the aftermath of a gig. We all experience it, and that voice can stick around in our heads, for better or for worse (your circular characterization, i.e. downward spiral) . These individual(s) should support, challenge, even inspire you to hopefully help you more productively process your immediate impressions of the gig (positively or negatively). This *motivation* might be the key to help you methodically upskill without the back and forth/second guessing, i.e. being motivated externally but not at the mercy of your work-related circles.

likesmart

Joined S& as an M with promise for promo if I proved myself. I'm performing ok but not going to happen and I'm not seeing my skills develop or improve with experience anymore. Worried I'll be looking for a job again in 6 months or a year, or that I've just plateaued and it's time I think about a fundamental career change. Any advice?

like

Following because I’ve been in a rut over the last year or so and felt much of this. Thanks for posting OP

like

What are you asking for here? You ask for advice but later divulge you know your shortcomings and are having trouble attaining those skills. It takes
some natural instinct and reps to build on that foundation. Relationship building, being a trusted advisor, and strategic selling are different skills than executing. Plenty of people hit a glass ceiling in this career when getting out of the intellectual side to sales side. You just need to decide if you have the natural instinct for it. If you don’t, it’ll be hard for you to stand out against those that do.

I did not and left. I am perfectly happy in industry where those skills do not matter as much.

likehelpful

This is helpful - my problem isn't that I dont know WHAT I need to improve, it's that I don't know how. So what I'm looking for is what has worked for others. Surely it can't be that lack of natural instinct can't be overcome

like

Relax. Did you see Warren Buffett’s slides during Berkshire’s annual meeting? Consulting is overrated.

helpfullikesmartfunny

Are you happy?

like

Love this head analytics 1

like

OP, thank you for posting. I'm exactly in your shoes, I feel like I'm on the chopping block soon. So many good suggestions here, it helped me. I think your issue may be that you are expecting answers to come to you, maybe some extra handholding. If you know the what, you need to figure out the how - identify mentors, learn to podcasts, make mistakes and learn. You asking here in 1 step in the right direction, do keep going at it! I know it can be hard when you've been on the chopping block but like you I've been searching and I've concluded that career is a sink or swim, people will coach you but won't rescue you from the sharks

helpfullike

I think consulting makes us all plateau after 2 years unless we are aiming for partner

like

I'm with you OP. I'm pretty sure I plateaued when I was around 46. Now that I don't have any more shots at Partner, I've been giving fewer and fewer f***ks, and been liberated to just be average. It's so refreshing.

like

OP, have you considered talking with a therapist or counselor? I suspect your issue is more mental than skills based. You mentioned feeling unmotivated when you can't tell if you're doing a great job. I think this line of thinking, possibly a form of imposter syndrome, puts you into a vicious cycle: you do something decently, but don't get immediate positive feedback, so you are demotivated, you try less hard, your results slip, and the cycle repeats. In the past, you had a virtuous cycle: you did a little better than your peers, got immediate good feedback, felt motivated, tried harder, did better, and so on. I think you need to focus on getting over that imposter syndrome or insecurity that is driving or stalling you.

If the above approach (therapy to identify and treat mental issue) doesn't work, then either leave consulting or trade down to another, lower tier firm. The catch with trading down is poorer exit options in case things don't work out there either.

like

Op - I think you don’t have your people at S&. What you need is a good mentor. Is there a partner you’ve worked with, or just know, who you like?

like

How is it going at S&?

Have you been getting any developmental feedback?

I know my development needs - it's how to address them and build the skills. They're typical, transitioning from landing the plane to being a client's thought partner and trusted advisor both in terms of sales and execution. I've been trying through reps, reading/podcasts, advice through others but just don't see it translating to results.

like

What was the reason for counseling out at your previous firm? Is it consistent with your development areas at your current firm?

Rare case where I was surprised and didn't have a warning. I had a good year with good reviews on paper but my most recent 2 projects were one where I genuinely dropped the ball a bit and another where I personality clashed with the AP. There was no single "official reason".

To be clear, I'm having good but not stellar reviews at S& and wont get promo this year. Maybe I'm just sensitive but I'm also trying to be self-aware and can't help but see opportunities for personal growth when comparing myself to peers and above.

helpful

Related Posts

I was fired after I reported a partner for a serious (criminal) ethics violation. The firm covered it up. Are all companies like this in the end? I’ve lost my trust and don’t know how to start over.

like

Hi Fishes,

I am thinking to diverting my career towards freelancing in accounting.
For that I have to resign from my current job in Pwc. I am thinking of starting a job as accountant and work as a freelancer as part-time.

Any thoughts or advice?

Hi All,

I wanted to ask two questions for the application process at MBB, I was a terrible student in high school thus my SAT scores are terrible but I graduated college with a 3.6, so will that impact my chances at MBB and be screened out by the HR system? Also is there a cover letter template to submit with my apps. Would anyone be willing to connect? Thank you for your time

like

WWYD?
I exited earlier this year, and my first few months were brutal for a variety of reasons owing to org changes amongst other things. I’m now close to an offer with another company, and feel torn about leaving so soon. Details in comments

like

CFP thinking of taking a few month career break to search for a new position. Need a recharge and to reevaluate, not to mention time to search. Would this be a mistake? Thanks

like

I got 50% hike in Infosys however in accenture, I got 20% mid year hike and 30% hike promise in Dec'22 to match Infosys. Should i stay in Accenture or move to Infy? which company is better?

like

New to SAP. What are good modules to learn if you are interested in supply chain?

like

Got an offer fr vmware worried about job security should I join or not as I have heard frequent layoffs happen there specially in india VMwware ,kindly suggest what to do !

like

Any advice for someone looking to transition into a full HR Generalist role from Recruiting. I’m currently a Campus Recruiter with about 5 years of HR experience (Coordinator- Higher Ed). I received my PHR certification in September 2020 and sitting for my SHRM-CP in two weeks. I’m having a hard time transitioning into a full Generalist position.

like

If Kanye becomes president then I can get into MBB. All things are possible.

likefunny

Has anyone used a career coach? Not a recruiter but someone who can give advice on making career changes. Any good names come to mind?

like

Hey guys I have offer from cisco system and checkpoint cyber security . Checkpoint is offering x+5 in base where as cisco is offering similar amount in joining bonus. Overall per year ctc is also differs by 3 lac (y+3) in checkpoint .

So considering recession and mass layoff which one will be right option to select in terms wlb, job security and future growth .

FYI : checkpoint is starting r&d division in India I will be first person to be hired for the same role.

like

What would be considered great operating exit ops at startups coming from VC?

like

How long can you go without having anything to do before you get laid off?

like

I have offer from KPMG India and PWC AC Banglore. Package is almost the same. PWC AC has Canada shift with permanent wfh and KPMG India has hybrid work model in pune location. Please suggest which one is better in terms of growth , wlb , culture etc

like

Hello everyone,

Need your help to choose which is a better path to switch from Non IT to Core domain.
Confused on what to learn software testing or AWs devops or front end development etc.

Thanks in advance for your suggestions.

like

From where to learn Angular?
Any good course for beginners. I am.alraedy working as .Net Backend. Plz suggest.

Hi Guyz, Need advice

I have expertise in Mobile application
development.
I know android ,flutter and react native.
But as I am progressing in my career I get
to know I love doing coding for business
logic rather then Ul part.

So I am planning to learn any backend
technology as well. I am thinking to start
learning nodejs. I just know Javascript
and totally freshie in backend.
Is it good idea to learn any backend.
technology and what technology I should
go for nodejs, dot net or anything else.

like

Left IBD to quickly - VP1 opps?

Long story short - was lured into an opportunity to do BD for a large PE PortCo… better work/life balance, but honestly miss the deal cycle.

Anyone know of open VP1 opps right now?

Quick background - former MM banker (think Raymond James, Piper Sandler size) doing FinTech and Asset Management within FIG, but also open to other sectors.

Thanks!

like

Have never worked on java before but wanted to switch as full stack java react developer.

YOE: 9+
Current tech stack: react js, frontend dev

Questions :
1. How much time it will take
2. Do I need to cover all frameworks
3. Micro services are must ?

I have to switch with in month.

like

More Posts

Reading the Security Permission Report for Proxy management

#SAP #SuccessFactors #HXM #ProxyManagement #Audit #Security

Post Photo

Hi, how may days after HR discussion i can expect offer letter?

like

Persistent conducts interviews just for timepass. After clearing all rounds they don't offer. Aspiring candidate dont attend interviews.

like

My creative director took my and my partner ‘s idea and hand over to a senior team, the new team rewrite the script and this project is in the process of production.

like
like

Generally speaking, does Microsoft pay more than Google?

like

Are there any other job titles that I can use in surveys other than an “accountant” if I work in FDD?

like

Accenture- Multiple opportunities for QA tester, Business analysts, automated and manual testing, functional Test Planning.
Experience 2-12 years
Dm me.

like

Looking for a REMOTE Paralegal Position in the Colorado Springs, CO area - preferably in Family or Criminal Law - If anyone knows of anything. If someone knows of a recruiter in that area as well, please let me know!
TIA!

like

Anyone have insight into Deloitte’s M&A strategy, diligence, and restructuring group? What kind of projects do you see the most and what’s the culture like?

like

I got an offer from Infosys. My manager says they will retain me by providing the same offer what I got in Infosys, i have put my resignation and my manager is calling me on weekly basis and saying that he is talking with senior leadership. Will TCS retain me? Suggestions please. I heard TCS has stopped allocating funds for retaintion is that true?

like

Just logged in. How is everyone? I guess I need likes to msg? Any pointers?

like

We’re expanding to USA soon - anyone with experience in order management looking for an opportunity? Part-remote work available and I don’t require a yes-man or overtime 🥳

How much do you pay for car insurance and with whom? I have no accidents, one ticket that should be dropped off now, and am constantly getting charged insane amounts.

like

I am applying for Retail liability - account maintenance governance manager role. Could you please tell me what level is this role, and what is the expected pay? YOE - 11 years

Hey there - I recently moved from the States. Former PwC, currently in HF space. Would love to meet for coffee or drinks if anyone’s interested

like

Hi there, can any provide the pay ranges for say L9, L10 etc at TD? Thanks!

like

Does anyone feel like there are certain practice areas that are more accessible and/or welcoming to black attorneys? Specify location when responding.

like

Anyone at Motorola able to provide a referral?

like

Additional Posts in Consulting Exit Opportunities

Are corporate finance or pricing dead end ops?

like

What are the best consulting firms to have a clear path to exit into big tech?

likefunny

Recruiter said I’m off put by your salary range & I responded that everyone has their priorities. Did she think insulting me was going to get to work for Infosys? 🤦🏻‍♀️🙄😒

funnylike

Had anyone gone from consulting in to diplomacy/International organization like the UN/EU or similar?

like

Having a baby and looking for consulting exit opps. I’ve been in strategy consulting for two years and recently promoted to manager. All projects were in tech or LS. Prior to consulting I have 10 yrs of Pharma experience with a MS in Engineering (non-CS) and data science. Fluent in Python, Ruby and Java but never coded professionally. Spent several years in process engineering and then project management. Interested in tech or digital health. Any advice on companies, roles and levels?

like

When moving out from an Audit Senior Manager (Big4) level, what are some good consulting firms to consider for technical accounting roles with good pay and less/no travel on the east coast?

like

What are the exit opps like from Deloitte strategy vs. Kearney or MBB Am I at a significant disadvantage if I don’t try to pivot to a more prestigious firm?

like

Interested in hearing from anyone who jumped from consulting to an AD or D position in med comms / marketing or medical affairs role, in a pharma / biotech (not agency).

How have you found the new role, transition, WLB & TC ?

like

What are the chances of Amazon (or FAANG in general) allowing you to apply/interview again for a position that you did not get in the past?

like

Would you renege a week before start date or work there for 4 months before quitting for new job? New employer is aware of said job. Main reason is $$$

like

1.5 YOE and looking to get a new job with higher salary. Healthcare client facing consultant role.

What jobs am I qualified for that will have a 90k+ salary? I'm aware of:

Sr data analyst
Jumping to another consulting firm
Getting a remote offer from a company based in HCOL city


Like??? I'd love to be a product manager but getting into that requires being a new grad/grad degree...

like

Which company would you rather exit to, Microsoft or Paypal?

like

Where are your favorite exit ops that pay good money, have good WLB and treat you well? Basically, I want to start putting my resume out there.

like

Upcoming interview with large tech company for biz ops go-to-market role. Any book recommendations to learn about go-to-market / sales op strategies for tech?

funny

First year (ug level hire) and got email from apple recruiter. Would love to exit to FAANG but not sure I'm ready to leave BCG in my first year but maybe after 2-4. What is best practice?

like

Does studying for top consulting firms’ case interviews help in any way for interviews with other firms (e.g., FAANG case interviews) ?

like

Consulting to sales-ops - is a pay cut needed? Want to move to tech but don't want to do internal strategy.

3 YOE, all in consulting

like

Which form of marketing (brand vs. product), does a typical Strategy Consulting role best prep for as a realistic exit? Also, between brand vs. product, marketing which is a more preferable exit?

like

Are there any companies/industries that offer MBA tuition reimbursement post-MBA if you did not work for the company pre-MBA?

like

Interested in tech in NYC—open to FAANG, but more interested in series C+ startups that know what they’re doing and can afford to pay. BD, gen mgmt, strategy/ops roles in that order. Any suggestions?

like

New to Fishbowl?

Download the Fishbowl app to
unlock all discussions on Fishbowl.
That was just a preview…
Sign Up to see all discussions
  • Discover what it’s like to work at companies from real professionals
  • Get candid advice from people in your field in a safe space
  • Chat and network with other professionals in your field
Sign up in seconds to unlock all discussions on Fishbowl.

Already a user?
Login here

Share

Embed this post

Copy and paste embed code on your site

Preview

Download the
Fishbowl app

See what’s happening in your industry
from the palm of your hand.

A phone with Fishbowl app

Scan your QR code to download
Fishbowl app on your mobile

Download app

Sign up for free to view this conversation on Fishbowl

By continuing you agree to Terms of Use and Privacy Policy

Already have an account? Log in

Sign up for free to continue using Fishbowl

By continuing you agree to Terms of Use(New) and Privacy Policy(New)
Messaging rates may apply

Already have an account? Log in

For account settings, visit Fishbowl on Desktop Browser or

General

Legal