curious. the married people here - age married & what number are you on?

For those of you in your mid-20’s, how often do you go on dates with your significant other? In a serious relationship for the first time since college and trying to gauge what folks consider normal for dating frequency (excluding nights in). Context - we’re 25, dating for 3 months, live 5 mins away from each other, decent WLB

Thoughts on convincing gf to stay? 27M dating 28F for ~1.5 years. We knew each other in HS and reconnected during the pandemic. Everything was so connected, compatible and hot, and we planned a life together. We thought we met the loves of our lives. We moved to NYC in January. Lost intimacy and connection. She’s unwilling to work on things. Such a genuinely talented and beautiful woman, but has trust issues and depression from being overworked. Thoughts on convincing vs surrendering / leaving?

Grinder is so much more convenient for hookups. Anything similar for straight men?

How many of you do some bicep curls before going out on a date?

Any F in the Dallas area looking for casual dating options?

The only reason I ever pursued casual sex (a couple times when I was 17-19) was to not get my heart broken. It always sucked and was so boring. I don’t understand when people say they want sex with no emotions. It’s the best part.

After everyone gets vaccinated, thinking of starting a desi singles meet up. Details will be shared later. Who’s in?

Hi everyone!!! 24, M, looking to connect with another guy :-)

Just want some dating advice. I been seeing this guy and we both in for the long haul. He has this best friend, and basically I hate her. I’m a guy btw. She is like this dramatic annoying type who bosses around. I’m a very quiet guy and I don’t like drama. My SO really wants me to be friend with her but I genuinely hate her. The moment she steps in the room I’m like “argh you again”. We had an argument because I don’t wanna hang with her. I don’t know what to do. Advices would be super appreciat

any single asian men in here interested to drink

What is your close ratio with walk ins/call ins?

This Indian matchmaking show is interesting...love how the first girl is like “my partner needs to fit in my life” 😳🙄😳🙄🤭

Ladies qq - how do you feel about tattoos on a guy?? (Either a guy you’re dating seriously or just casually - doesn’t matter)

Any F 🐥/🐠 from San Jose here? 👋

What are the best sports bars to meet guys on a Sunday afternoon?

31 M, 6'3 looking for a serious relationship and a potential soulmate.

Hi, I'm new here, and I didn't know there was a dating feature but it seems cool.

Any of Dfw female fishes interested in spending time over drinks/ dinner chat abot life, fun friendly conversation, may we watch a movie together. ? Brown Male 36 .

29M from LA. Looking for something serious

Single 25 F. Any single males 25-30 yrs on here?

Is it financially irresponsible to buy a home that requires you to divert what you’re currently saving / investing monthly to pay the mortgage?

What is a trait you previously thought was critical in a partner that you've changed your mind about? What is a trait you've come to realize over time is critical?

Hi guys looking for a job switch after 3 years in TCS Highly appreciated if anyone can provide me referral in infosys.

Profile : Data Scientist ML(Computer Vision, NLP)
Relevant YOE: 2

Who are considered the top consulting firms for Executive Coaching? Thanks!

what is working at a crisis management firm like? broad question, i know, but i don’t know much about the field! (i currently work at an ad agency, but i’m considering a career pivot.)

How do you determine which students will be on your caseload?

I recently asked everyone’s age filters on dating apps and there were some mentions of fear of baggage and that’s why you don’t date older than X. What baggage are you afraid of? Ex spouses? Kids from prior relationships? What is it?

I wanted to get people's opinions on leetcode, codewars etc when prepping for interviews. I am a junior full stack dev looking to move to a better paying junior role or a mid role and honestly these style of questions have always stumped me. I have found that in a year of work to have never found them useful in tackling real world issues. Now I'm moving from a junior to a mid can I still expect leetcode style questions?

I work mainly with react, TS, node, graphql, mongoose and mongoDB.

How much PTO does everyone get? Please include yoe for context

Would you say being a partner is more demanding than being an industry exec?

What is typically the policy for putting the deals you have worked on in your resume? I have seen conflicting notes on whether you can include or not (only the deals that are closed and public)

I'd like to buy, but the market is absolutely atrocious currently

Software Development/ Tech Consulting/ Product Management. Which pays the best in terms of money and WLB in the long run?

Should you gift your GF who has kids but not with you something for Mother’s Day? 👀 if yes what’s a good gift that’s not over involved ? (Not flowers or chocolates 🙄).

Can I ask a cop to stay outside my door if I feel threatened at home?

My wife is not exactly vanilla we but she never talks about sex, she gets super shy, I don’t think she was like that before. Any advice? I’d love to hear from the ladies. Especially because I like to talk and hear about it.

is it wrong or normal to re-develop feelings for someone you liked in the past but currently are happy and committed to someone else? I think it’s normal but 100% hurts your s/o?

Sent out a bunch of networking emails today, and nobody answered 😭

have you ever just completely missed a team meeting? what ended up happening?

Guy stood me and my friends up (he’s with his friends), then texted us 3 hours later to come to a different bar where he and his friends are, and apologized profusely. Said no. Do I forgive him tomorrow?

Grinder is so much more convenient for hookups. Anything similar for straight men?

Friday evenings lost their mojo during WFH!

Why can’t my exes leave me alone

How many of you do some bicep curls before going out on a date?

Looks like Manager Chief be flirting with copyrighter in this bowl 😏

The only reason I ever pursued casual sex (a couple times when I was 17-19) was to not get my heart broken. It always sucked and was so boring. I don’t understand when people say they want sex with no emotions. It’s the best part.

I peed in the ocean twice today at the beach 🤫🤫🤫🤫🤫🤫🤫🤫🤫🤫🤫🤫🤫🤫

I rearrange my home office several times a year. Idk why but every 4 months I need to change it up. Anyone else do this?

Just want some dating advice. I been seeing this guy and we both in for the long haul. He has this best friend, and basically I hate her. I’m a guy btw. She is like this dramatic annoying type who bosses around. I’m a very quiet guy and I don’t like drama. My SO really wants me to be friend with her but I genuinely hate her. The moment she steps in the room I’m like “argh you again”. We had an argument because I don’t wanna hang with her. I don’t know what to do. Advices would be super appreciat

My mom says to marry a man who loves me, not a man who I love. Happily married wives: thoughts?