Ladies qq - how do you feel about tattoos on a guy?? (Either a guy you’re dating seriously or just casually - doesn’t matter)

New in town, where do I go to meet people (for friends and dating)?

Do you think it is easier to overcome cheating in a relationship that has or does not have children involved? Listening to an interesting podcast and would love to know peoples take on the topic

What's your date of Jalsa??

My natural instinct is to assume rejection if I have conflict with a partner or don’t think my feelings are reciprocated. I’ll try to bring it up with them, but I’ll say “if you want to end this feel free” so it doesn’t hurt me (and they can say what they really mean instead of sugarcoating). Someone told me today that they just assume I’m not interested because I always seem to “run” but I’m not sure how to bring up problems/feelings otherwise. How do you approach these hard questions?

So many people live in NYC but still it feels like the loneliness place on the planet. Does anybody have positive stories from dating apps? How do you guys meet ppl in general?

Do you guys date at church? It gives me a lot of nervousness and anxiety so I tend to avoid it

Best part about being single: Not having to hold in my gas ! What is the best part of it for you??

How often do you have sex? How long have you been together? I’m lucky if I get it 1x a week and I’m getting frustrated.

I’m so tired from dating and looking for a serious relationship, so i just browsed the seeking arrangement website 😐

Decided to start dating again - realized I would need to tell some poor guy some day soon that I moonlight as a dominatrix 😣 I make too much

25M banglore .. anyone interested do ping

Thoughts on serial dating, via social media apps?

25 F in NYC. I was born in the US and raised between US and Middle East. Looking to meet people :)

Any advice 24m

Never dated before. What confrontational questions I should get out of the way?

Both looking for marriage. Get to know each other a little bit then bring up marriage with parents.

Can’t wait for Saturday to come so that my date and I can Netflix and chill, then having him sleeping over and I waking up next to him. Miss his warmth and miss giving and receiving cuddles. I like the feeling of having certain people making you behave in a more tender way. I’ve been literally longing for that moment for the week as I’m on a boring PMO case. Romance is not lost between gay guys! :)

So many guys lurk in this bowl even if it is ‘desi ladies’. The minute I respond to any post related to dating, multiple guys try to slide into DMs acting innocent as if they are just ‘curious’ 🤷🏻‍♀️ 🤦🏻‍♀️

Any smart, funny and caring Desi F Interested in connecting? Trying really hard to avoid the matrimonial route.

Anyone up for speed dating in the comments? 👀 Please no trolling, afterall this is the 30s bowl...
For each of the following describe yourself + the person you're looking for.

1. ASL
2. Something serious/casual
3. Physical description - as detailed or as general as you'd like 🤣
4. Interests/hobbies
5. Personality traits
6. Values
7. Non- negotiables
8. Whatever else....

Let's make some connections!

May not be the right bowl but I need insights. Guy likes me and vice versa, was over at my place helping with something, had a huge erection but said or did nothing. I can’t figure out why..

Silicon Valley Bank or American Express.
AmEx paying slightly less than SVB.
Yoe: 8
Skill: ServiceNow

How did your interview go with JP guys?. Easy? Medium? Or difficult?.. please comment

I got offers from PragerM, UHY, and PKF. I think I made my decision but wanted to see if anyone had any insight of them. Would you not choose one for one reason or another? Or is there one that stands out and would jump on immediately? Thanks all.

I have a JP Morgan code interview happening soon for a data science position. Anything I should know before I get started?

Hi Everyone

My younger brother is in final year BE,
He wants to pursue data science, please suggest any best place to learn n do internship.

Thanks in advance

Passed over for a promotion twice now. Higher ups keep saying how I’m so close, but just not there yet. Time to move on?

I wish I had even a tiny fraction of the energy I had when I first started this job

Dude the mental backflips some of you go through to justify the real life consequences your actions have on juniors is mind blowing

Hi , I think I asked less CTC for my experience from ey GDS .offer already released one month ago. can I ask hr to increase it now.? My doj is in nov. And currently don't have any offer now.

Anyone willing to refer to KPMG? Came across an interesting position in Austin, TX.

When is a H1B eligible to initiate H4 ? Also what's the suggested time (when) for such initiation? Please help

Hi
I just want to renegotiate with @IBM to revised offer letter, HR is not responding.
DOJ 1 September.
Any suggestions please.

Thank you

Hi,

Requesting for 11 likes to enable messaging. Thank you!

Hey! I have applied to an entry level investment associate in a venture capital firm in my country. As part of the process they will send me some real pitch decks and I will need to do 1-pager investment thesis for each one. I have never done that in the past. Can you please guide me? Is there a template or format I should use? Tips & things to be mindful of will be extremely helpful!

How do you deal with a passive aggressive supervisor who regularly points fingers and throws people under the bus?

IT Audit fish! What resources would you recommend to pass the CISA? Looking for a study plan similar to Becker CPA. Since I’m new to IT audit, the MCQ database alone may not be enough.

Good gyms (besides equinox) that aren’t crowded/small?
Debating between Blink or Crunch, any preferences?

Hi, anyone successfully subletting their apartment (TF Cornerstone)? Would love to know how you went about it. Thank you in advance.

Any recommendations on how to find a roommate in NYC?

Have a 2 BR in midtown east, if anyone is looking! I’m a pretty easy going 25 year old M looking to have fun in NYC outside of work. Clean and respectful. Classic hobbies... gym, sports, trying restaurants, etc

Finance guys - Need some insight.

What firm are you at and what are your hours like? I’m mutually exclusive with a guy who’s a VP at a prominent firm. He’s been very low communication lately and says it’s work.

I really don’t have the emotional headspace to be cheated on again 😞 I’m finally dating someone I really like after getting out of a bad relationship a year ago.

Be nice, thanks in advance!!

Best bars, lounges and dance places for 30+ crowds in Manhattan?

Hi NYC female fish! Room available in our apt for 12-month sublet beginning 8/1. Midtown east (57/3) in doorman elevator laundry building, $1350 monthly rent. PM me if interested!

Does anyone know if Uber drivers can see if we are sharing a ride with someone? Not splitting the cost, but having someone else watch your trip home?

Anyone have experience with rentopia for Brooklyn listings? They seem to control most listings in the area I’m looking and are very unresponsive

it’s disgusting to see in this city how people pay more attention to the dogs homeless people have than the people themselves - it’s dehumanizing and makes me sick when people give a strained smile to the homeless person while patting their pup like come on

Can anyone recommend a good personal trainer in park slope / prospect park area? Looking for someone who can help with training and nutrition. Thanks!

Does anyone here live near East 83rd St and 3rd Ave? I'm interested in an apartment there but I noticed a huge construction site at the corner there. The agent said the construction there is now mostly just facade work on the top so it's not noisy any more, but I don't 100% buy that. If anyone lives in that area, can you please tell me if you can still hear any construction noise from inside your apartment when you close your windows at all? Thanks!

Any brokers/property managers that can help me find a no fee apartment??

Hi! Wanted to tell you about @smarterinasec, an Instagram I recently started. Every day, I do a deep dive on one topic + provide content recs on that topic to read, watch, & listen.

any personal trainer recs? preferably female. i’ve never had one before so not sure where to start looking/what a reasonable price is!

Any Visual Designer's looking for a new job opportunity?
Contract or Contract to hire
Remote

Need to be a able to work in the USA

Alight NYC peeps, you have opinions and I want them! I’m relocating to NYC sometime between end of 2022 and early 2023 (my company is being super flexible on timing of relocation). What tips do you have for me about finding a place and where should I live?! I’m looking for specific buildings, location, the best time to move to get a deal, etc