Dating is so important in a marriage! I hope you all are making time for romance and quality time in your week, it makes such a huge difference.

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Actually, do you mean dating my wife or a side chick ? I try but is hard to do especially when my wife is in town !

I definitely agree with this. I find that a lot of times when friends tell me that their marriages have fallen up on hard times and I ask if they are still having weekly date nights, they often say no. People forget how important it is to still date each other and do the same things you did that made you fall in love.

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