Has anyone dealt with the death of a parent while working in public accounting? How did it go? My dad is probably going to pass soon and trying to prepare, I guess.

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Yes OP. I’m sorry for the stress and sadness you and your family are going through right now. My dad passed in March this year. I let my team know, and I took a 3 month leave of absence to grieve, deal with the financial/admin side of it, hang out with mom. Kind of wish I took longer. But, it helped so much.

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I’m sorry for your loss. Thank you for sharing your experience.

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I have - lost my dad several yrs ago and my mom a few years ago. I knew it was coming but it was much sooner than expected. I am very sorry for your situation as it is horrible. The Firm/teams were all very supportive about taking time off. Suggest communicating with your teams if you feel comfortable doing that. Take the time off you need. I took off about a week for each parent - for me it was just better to get back to work to be distracted. Though there were definitely days for the few months following where it was difficult to concentrate.

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I’m sorry for your loss. Thank you for sharing your experience.

I lost my dad after a period of illness, while I was working. I took FMLA so I could be with my family in his last days. I took a leave of absence after his death until I was in the headspace to work. I worked with HR to make the arrangements, and they and my LOB (via my coach) were understanding and I never felt pressure to work.

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