Dear Moms,
Any tips on networking post kids? I have never been great at it, and now with drop-off, pick- ups and just day to day, I feel like I just don’t even know where to begin.

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How supportive is your partner? I think this is where you need to ask for help. Also I find conferenced that occur during the workday to be good for networking.

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I have heard that you need to find 3 mentors:
1. A mentor on your level so you can relate to someone.
2. A mentor a level above you so you can aim higher/ have reasonable expectations
3. A mentor that is Uber-successful where they raise your expectations that you have for yourself by example.

These people are around you in your daily; book 30 min coffee chats...arrange to meet at networking events with one 1:1 drink after...book a breakfast catch-up session that has an assigned timeframe.

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You give up on night-time networking events. 🙃My response suggested 30 min coffee chats, and a breakfast catch-up session - I’ve even done a “smoothie break” with a colleague that was health-focused. These actually turn out to be very focused conversations in a good way.

As far as finding the mentor(s) ...you have to give up on finding one that is “doing everything right” and find one that is doing a few things you would like to learn about and ‘try on’ - you would be surprised at how much people want to help and share. Even if they aren’t the perfect mentor; they could be a smoothie away from your ultimate mentor - one that you could have never found with a cold ask (one that your not-so-perfect mentor introduces you to). Just start!

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