Desi ladies - how important is it to you and your family that the guy you date (or marry if dating is not a thing for you) makes more $ than you?

I'm not sure what else I did other than being respectful and not giving flip at the same time but (4) mature ladies in my office flirt with me every chance they get. Some of my M colleagues are beginning to notice and giving the prod. I must confess it comes with some perks as I do appreciate how fast they process my requests/orders which a M colleague literally told me is biased. Recently one of them offered to bring me her cooked food and asked that I do the same..(Cont'd)

How do you casually date? Recently moved to a new city I didn’t know anyone in, met 2 girls I like and have gone on a few dates with but not sure I like them enough yet to like commit. Is it wrong to go on dates with both until I figure it out? Not sure what to do, getting into relationships makes me feel trapped and unsure for some reason

Which city would you recommend for single men in late 20s trying to find good opportunities in career & dating? Leaning more towards to NYC but not planning to live in Manhattan due to the high rent so I am not sure that would be okay. Also don't want to drive that much.

Why would a lesbian co-worker want to have sex with me-hetromale?

F 39 I’m officially on search for a husband (shamelessly). What do you guys like in a lady, what kind of look grabs your attention? What do I need to wear?? My male friends tell me I need more revealing clothes! 😂

I have no issues dating/sleeping with my neighbors, co-workers (sometimes, happened twice), and hired help (personal trainers, massage therapists, mechanics). My excuse: I'm a busy gal who doesn't have time to screen men on apps. I have an insatiable appetite for sex and the convenience doesn't hurt!

if youve been talking to someone for 3 months and u catch them in a lie by stalking their friend on IG, should you call them out or is that too crazy

My husband does not show affection openly and is quite lazy in bed, and I thought I could deal with it because I love him, but it’s really really beginning to annoy me. For example, he refuses to do any foreplay and basically asks that I get on top of him most of the time when we have have sex- if I push him to do anything else he basically just refuses to have sex at all as some sort of ‘protest’. I am finding myself fantasising about an affair more and more

Single 24 year old here. Recently joined Hinge. I am barely getting any activity. I'm a former OKCupid user and I always got something there. Do people not use Hinge or is there something wrong with me? I'm a fit average height guy and I am not ugly. Looking for LTR especially now in the time of Corona. Didn't bother with human interaction before tbh but this loneliness is creeping up. 😔

Who wants to link up this weekend, drinks on me. I’m M 🐠 btw

Hi all! I’ve been dating my bf for about 4 months now and there are some things he says/is into that make me believe he is either Bisexual or has gender dysphoria. I could really use someone’s advice who has a similar experience like this. Is anyone willing to chat? I just want to be supportive and helpful.

How is dating in Jax? Apps seem to suck. 26M here trying to date or just to make new friends

Females, how much of your personal life do you disclose to the men in your team? I.e. Lovers, relationships, ONS etc

Advice on dating someone long distance? Kinda big price tag just to see each other.

Looking for a female to share a 2bhk in Indira nagar. Found the place today.. Reply asap.

How is your dating life? Are you open and crazy about it?

Do you think a teacher dating/marrying another teacher is an ideal situation?

What's the payscale range for Learning managers in India?

How is Virtusa Lloyd Bank Project?

How is work life Balance?

Tech stack Java?

I have recently joined Capgemini. When can I expect my joining bonus?

What is the base salary for Senior 1 in Gds tax currently? Anybody please?

Does ey gds lay off?

Will _vois provides WFH option after covid too. Have they given it anyone before pandemic?

Hi all,
Will an offer made in paper by one organization get revoked if a counter offer from other organisation is submitted to negotiate a better salary?
Also need an advice on should i submit the counter offer even if i prefer the first organisation only to improve the salary which is less as offered now?
Please share your thoughts. Thanks!

Hi fishes,

I have received my first offer letter which they wanted me to accept by e- signing it and after i did that theh have sent out form 11 and other documents to be filled in 2 days.
I have never filled form 11 and other personal details untill 1 week before my joining date.

My joining date would be after my notice period which is usually 2 months.
Should I share the person details and form 11 they asked for now itself?
Will it be a problem if i don't wish to join the company later

Have a 6.25 inch wrist: is the Omega Seamaster Aqua Terra 41 mm too big for my wrist?

Can someone please share the current trends in joining/signing on bonus in Asset management industry.

I have an offer from an Asset Manager in London and it is slightly below my expectations. I want to approach them for a joining bonus but was not sure if it is a thing in asset management.

Also what is a good % to ask for a joining bonus [5%, 10% or 15%] of the base salary

How common are credit checks for roles in accounting or finance positions? Will high utilization on credit card balances and low credit score be a deal breaker? I’ve been irresponsible and made mistakes, but wondering if I can switch jobs now or if I’m best off waiting 1-2 years and cleaning up my credit first.

Anyone from @Coforge, can tell me about Conveyance Allowance + LTA component in salary breakup. Is it fixed or variable? Is it paid with monthly salary? Does it requires manager approval? Can we claim it while working from home? Tata Consultancy Tech Mahindra Infosys Wipro HCL Technologies Coforge Coforge ltd.

I saw this and thought I'd share. What do you say? “Diversity hiring does not mean a lower bar for diverse candidates. They still need to interview and pass the hiring bar. Therefore, diversity hiring is not unfair to other non-diverse applicants."

Any primary care physician recommendations in the Alexandria/Arlington area?

I have a 401k and A Roth IRA but I’m not active in my investments. What are some good sources to get started to understand personal finance and investing?

Salary thread: What position are you in and how much are you making? I'm an AE making 75k a year in Chicago

26 F Gujarati, looking for someone in Chicago!

Here to find my Holidate 🙆🏽‍♂️

Any Indian Christians here?

Did anyone meet people through this bowl?

I am 39 F. Based in US. Looking for a person over age 39 and living in US - any state. If you are looking for a match let's connect.

Fellow desi fishes, how do you all deal with loneliness? I don’t really have many friends where I live. Every weekend, I can’t help but feel alone and lonely

How are fellow desi single fish spending Christmas?

I wish I had someone to cuddle with in this beautiful white weather! 😢 (for context: 29M)

Just got married to a somebody I met through this bowl and I love him with everything inside me! Wanted to share that’s there’s hope for everybody!!!!

Desi folks! Why do you let your parents manage your profile on the websites? It’s so uncomfortable when you get a call at 4 am saying “beta, we like your profile.” 🤷🏽‍♂️

Now is a good time to wish MC to people who wish you HBD on your birthday. What do these people do with the time they save wishing someone?

Is this bowl active?
Tired of dating apps and the dating shenanigans!
F 26🐠 in Mumbai. HMU if you are in your late 20s - early 30s, willing to talk and see how it goes.
Not into casual hookups, prefer acquaintances over ONSs, just putting it out there.

Any Female Fishes in Bay Area?

Any smart, funny and caring Desi F Interested in connecting? Trying really hard to avoid the matrimonial route.

Saw a post in the confession bowl so I wanted to check this bowl out. Any hot, smart, rich and single guys in this bowl?😁

28M moved to Munich. Any F from DE or EU interested to connect please DM.

How many folks here looking to actually connect for serious relationship (potentially converting to marriage)?

I’ll start 🙋🏻‍♂️ 30, located in the US (east coast) - open to worldwide relocation.

Any gyals in Toronto?

33 M.. any f in CT wanna connect .....