Do females in love with their significant other cheat? And did you confess to your bf/husband?

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They do if you call people “female” or “male.”
How did you even get hired at Deloitte???

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I did confess, and he dumped me 4 months later. I deserved it, but the way he did it was right after I had a surgery. I don’t think I’d deserve any major sympathy but I cheated the night we had a huge fight and I got black out drunk at a party, and we’d been in a long distance relationship with us fighting more and more over time - all explainable stuff, but still, shouldn’t have cheated.

It’s been 5.5 years, I’ve been single, no contact since breakup, he was not a catch anyway, and I’ve mostly forgiven myself for what I did. Mostly. Don’t cheat, it’s not worth the guilt - more than feeling bad for him (he moved on and had a great life), I couldn’t look myself in the mirror for months

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Ugh just got diagnosed with trich. I'm married and I don't feel my husband cheated. I'm not dumb..
Totally bugged his phone with spyware. Have seen NOTHING to suggest cheating. Plus he never goes anywhere without me 🤣. However I'm like how the hell would I have gotten it?! I haven't to slept with anyone else. So conflicted!

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