Folks who are into fitness, can you please suggest a good pair of walking and running shoes.

Thank you to those who have joined. Does anyone have anything they are struggling with at work that they believe may be an issue due to autism?

Does anybody have ideas on how to use 2 weeks of vacation during covid? Can’t visit family without international travel, most friends are with their family/SOs and social distancing. Pto is expiring so it’s use it or lose it. Im in NYC. Thank you!

I started an antidepressant treatment for my generalized anxiety disorder and it’s been life changing! It’s only been a week and I already feel so much better, any other fish in the same bowl? 😏

What's the worst execuse you've heard when you've told a patient they have an STI?

Up antidepressant dosage or quit?
Relatively new position at a coveted firm as their Marketing and BD manager. Have suffered burnout and depressive episodes previously: can feel the symptoms raising it’s head. Most importantly, struggling to tolerate how directors speak to me, whereas previously I wouldn’t take it personally and get on with it. Actively looking for a different position as I’ve come to discover this company exploits EME employees, but want to attempt to end on a “high note”.

On the news, there was a report that "stress" causes negative health effects. Um. OK. Don't people feel "stress" just by being alive? Like, what would be the control group that you could measure the results against? I don't know why, but it always makes me wonder

The pandemic, mental health issues, and financial stress caused my work to suffer. What do I do?

Has anyone’s center discussed closure due to virus precautions? I’m super anxious not about the virus but about all the response to it.

Losing hair really badly!!! :( I dont know if its the thyroid meds or just pregnancy. I'm currently 13 weeks. Any recommendations? I'm doing the hair oil stuff but that will take time.

How do we proceed with using this benefit? How to enroll if i want to start with IUI?

I’ve suffered from workaholism for a long time. Thanks to a lot of great self help books and therapy, I’m no longer putting work on a pedestal and I’m spending a lot more time on self care and my marriage. But, unfortunately, I am now getting withdrawals, because my body is used to the daily adrenaline of throwing myself into work. It’s this terrible feeling of like anguish/unease in my gut, but I don’t have anything I’m worried about- it’s like my body wants to find something to worry about.

I am a cashier and I was under the impression that we were still required to wear masks on a federal level. Is this not true?

Let’s talk... Coronavirus. Who’s got a mask? 😷

I was trying to figure out what my personality trait was a few days ago. It’s depression, my personality trait aside from work is depression

I see a lot of people who have crippling anxiety here work out to feel better. My crippling anxiety kind of paralysis my legs (or at least feels like it to the point that I can’t even walk). Does anyone have similar symptoms and solution for it?
I am in therapy right now but just wanted to hear from someone who is also going through it

What kind of dietary resources do you point your patients do when discussing nutritional changes to your patients for their annual exams?

Single 24 year old here. Recently joined Hinge. I am barely getting any activity. I'm a former OKCupid user and I always got something there. Do people not use Hinge or is there something wrong with me? I'm a fit average height guy and I am not ugly. Looking for LTR especially now in the time of Corona. Didn't bother with human interaction before tbh but this loneliness is creeping up. 😔

I’m switching to Strattera (from Adderal XR) after some stories shared in this bowl, and some family members who have been really happy with it.

On my first full dose today and man the nausea is real. Understanding now why my doctor told me to split the dose into different parts of the day. Should have listened. 😅

I think living a frugal life and aiming to retire early makes a lot of sense.

Recently, some of my family members are diagnosed with a rare diseases. When you look at the statistics, these are so many of these ‘rare’ conditions and cumulatively they are not rare.

These family members conditions made me reevaluate how I want to spend my life. I am 35 this year and I can’t decide if I should take great vacations with my kids or keep living a frugal life. Do you have the same dilemma?

If anyone is interested in forming a case chain or is already in one for McKinsey interviews, drop a comment

How does one get into trading from positions elsewhere in the bank? What would impress you most about candidates attempting to do so?

Does hsbc have Christmas shutdown like most firms? Or is everyone working through the holiday season

Why are you so many people leaving Deloitte and coming to Accenture? What makes it better as Accenture people are leaving to go to Deloitte? Wondering on both sides why and what is leading to the change?

has anyone dealt with an unfair PIP at work before and survived?

Ghosted once more after what I thought was a great first date. Guess I’ll give up on love forever.

Anyone know the base salary for VP position at Visa North America?

Sorry if this has been asked a few times but - relocating to Charlotte and looking for apartments, preferably in southend. Any solid recommendations or places to avoid?

Looking for a 1 BR - 2.4K a month or less.

TYSM!!

What is band of Associate Director in Mindtree?

Are there any virtual teaching positions in Michigan that pay into the MI retirement system (ORS) for educators? I have 4.5 years until I can retire and due to my health may not be able to be in person. All of the jobs I have seen only offer 401Ks. Thanks for your help.

Anyone hiring remote EPs?

Anyone know of the EA salary range and culture at Chime?

Leased a new Mercedes and the dealership filed for new registration two months after the purchase. Now the temporary tags have expired and they won’t send me a new one. What can I do in this situation?

Did anyone notice this around in their cities/neighbourhood/family ?

Hi Fishes,
Can anyone help me with the tax implications on the bonus received . I got 2.5L bonus in this payroll and 56k tax was deducted at source. Now I’m on notice so I have to resign and return the gross amount that is 2.5L .. what happens to the tax I paid 56k ? Is that my loss ?

Hi All,
If anybody needs scaler academy referral, please free to ping me. You will get 10K discount.

Hey Fishes. I wanted to understand one thing.

When you apply for any opportunity, how well versed should you be with all the things mentioned in a JD, like certification, experience, some tools and technology, coding language. Do you see a 100% fit before you apply or go for the opportunity if you see the responsibilities meeting your expectation and know only like 60% of the expected or desired skills.

Have you been selected if in case you applied knowing you meet less criterias?

Hi Fishes,

Need some help figuring out where I stand in the job market and what profiles should I apply for. Here are some of the roles I play in the team:
1. Business intelligence lead: Plan and implement BI solutions for various banking, healthcare and utilities clients. Across various platforms like Qlik, Cognos, OBIEE, etc.
2. Work on deliverables when the team isn't available, and this happens more often than not because we have a small team.
3. ML deliverables: Plan and (continued)

Hi everyone,

Sharing one incident.
One of TOP MNC offered me 18 lpa . I got counter offer of 28 lpa from CG .
Today I called that TOP MNC same. They asked me to share screenshot - I shared . Now they are asking complete offer letter of CG but I denied as I feel this is not right to share docs.

Kindly share your views.

Hey mates, I have an overall experience of 14 years with 6lakh CTC. Started my career in BPO though I am from computer science background and then proved myself for the IT movement within the same company before 8 years (6 years in BPO and 8 years in IT). Nothing is changed financially but in a better role. Have got certified in GCP. I stayed here for too long because I was looking for an onshore opportunity but now luck is not favouring me in H1B lottery. Looking for your valuable suggestions!

Hi Fishers..
I am working at lti from last 4 years..
Got offer from citi.. but don't know how much to ask for salary negotiation.
My total years of experience is 10 and current CTC is 11.
Suggestions will be helpful

I got offer from Luxoft Romania.. (Having 8 year of experience), of 25000 RON + 15RON/day meal + some bonus etz... Later

Is it worth to join in Romania with this salary package?

Hey guys..

I recently switched to new company . I am now missing my previous company and project..

Am feeling out of the place in new company... Feeling difficult to perform new projects.. the projects are little new to me .. thought to check if anyone feels this way ..

Hello Fishes,

I have offers for BA role with YOE - 9 yrs from

KPMG - 25 LPA - Consultant

Barclays - 27 LPA - AVP

Citi - 30 LPA - AVP

All three companies are offering hybrid work model as of now.

Can you please help me suggest which is a better choice w.r.t work culture, work life balance, yearly increment & bonus, promotions ?

P.S. I'm a working mother

Very very poor hikes, even worse than service companies. For ppl who joined in November or later, , they have defaulted hikes to bare minimum.

Extremely disappointed.

Koi kapda fit nahi ho raha wfh ke baad 🙁