For the Christian community, how do you actually date? How does the process look like? The routine and interactions as boyfriend/girlfriend (with no sex or avoiding temptation). What’s your average timeline for the stages of dating? Males and female perspectives are welcome! Ages 30+ preferred. 😆

I’m very curious so if you also want to chat about, I’m open 😁

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The dating process will vary from couple to couple, but is SO important that there is TOTAL alignment on no $ex.

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