My boss (atty) is so disorganized! I’ve been with him 6 months and he’s having a hard time delegating, sharing info and managing deadlines. I’ve organized the caseload to manage the deadlines. He says he wants me to help with discovery but when I offer to start on one, he says he needs to do it. (Since he might have to present as evidence) When I give him deadlines and ask for the docs he says he’ll get to it. It’s a small 1 man firm, and I’m the first assistant besides his wife. Any advice?

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C-Y-A… as soon as he misses the deadline it will be your fault! Whenever you calendar deadlines, make sure you give him a hardcopy and write the due date on it. Email him so you always have an audit trail. Many attorneys are last minute people. Good luck!

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Don’t make this your problem. I’d find a different firm with more capabilities than a one-two person operation.

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Try to get the wife on your side?

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Yes she likes me a lot and we work well together. She was the force behind hiring an asst because she was also overwhelmed

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Solo practitioners can be control freaks. Like small business owners. You can either work with that or you can’t, but he likely can’t/won’t change. New job time.

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Working for an unorganized attorney was the worst decision of my life. I did it for years and eventually became extremely burnt out. I would not even bother and find a new job.

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I do a lot of skeleton drafts for one of my attorneys. So, I just start the pleading with the caption and introductory language for whatever it is and signature block, and then he just adds in what he wants. I also do a status email on Monday mornings with the stuff that’s due that week and we have a shared calendar. If he misses something after all that, it’s on him.

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