Guys if you are using apps such as Grindr and Scruff, please be careful. One guy that I was chatting with on Scruff in Pittsburgh found my Facebook account and since my profile was public, he found information of my family members and threatened to send pictures, chat history to my family members. Lesson learnt - make your social media accounts secure (don’t make your Facebook profile profile). He has blocked me since then, so I couldn’t report his profile

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Yeah I made my Facebook with a fake name. Insta is private. As much as it would be great to have people slide in my DMs. The chance to be hacked via social engineering is greater. I’ve had it happen a few different times with the last time someone attempting to blackmail me. That was kind of the camels back with how I interact with people on apps and how much I share before meeting someone in person. The goal should be to meet in person first.

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I’m so terrible. I’m like that’s all you’ve got? My mom may not need hear what I enjoy doing, but she made it all...and it looks good. Try again 🤣

Oh of course it’s disgusting and I’ve heard this from multiple sources

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I deleted all of those apps a while ago, but when I had it, I only linked my insta

How often does this happen? And how do you make sure you are safe? Im not fully out to family and dont want to be in this situation...

All my social has fake information. I never give my real name on Grindr.

That’s smart.

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