Has anyone dealt with a crazy partner were you had to go back forth with them on a report twenty times?

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Time for a new partner. Don’t got time for slackers.

I haven't personally dealt with this as I am a paralegal but we had two attorneys at my firm who were like this. One of them was just so neurotic and it would take FOREVER for the two of them to get anything done together.

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