Hey 👋,
I'm New here and single
22yrs 🇬🇭

Any good drinks spots for a date night? Something with a frozen fruit drink or craft cocktails?

I matched with a guy and we initially agreed to meet for the first time this coming Friday. Last Wed, he sent two messages on the app with suggestions but I wasn’t able to text back until Sat because I was traveling. He unmatched me. Am I in the wrong here? How often do you text people in the talking stage? (F in early 30s here)

I’ve had a crush on a coworker forever and we’re stuck in this stupid small talk phase. I’m over analyzing and freeze up and don’t know how to push it forward. How do I get him to make the first move?

How many dates do you give someone if you don’t feel a “spark” in the first 1-2 dates but genuinely enjoy their company (I.e. talking and learning about them etc)?

May not be the right bowl but I need insights. Guy likes me and vice versa, was over at my place helping with something, had a huge erection but said or did nothing. I can’t figure out why..

M26. Started using dating apps. Literally swiped everyone rightnyet 0 match😥

Any suggestions. I tried updating bio and other things

What have you found to be the most overrated and underrated aspect of NYC? I’ll start.

Overrated:

Nightlife. This isn’t some European capital raging till 6am on weekends. It’s dead after 2am and because rent is so high your bars are extremely small, crowded and mediocre

Dating/Friendships. While this is a city you can have lots of hookups, the average quality of the person is baddd and there is little romance for serious dating. easy to end up 30 without a single meaningful relationship

Ladies - few girls in finance date guys in finance, even though each one of you are dating material. Top 2 things wrong with guys in finance? Be nice...

I’m a single black woman. What are the best locations to find other single men?

I may just take myself to a bar, but what if no one approaches me

45 M In Bay Area CA . Any female 🐠 from Bay Area here?

Are text message breakups acceptable? Better than complete ghosting right

Someone teach me how to flirt! How do I let this guy know I’m into him?

Any F in the Bay Area wana have some exciting time?

why am i into my coworker who is engaged lol it needs to stop immediately.

Who's free tn and wants to mingle? 26/m

I recently went from having an incredibly open and intimate long-term relationship with a person I was certain I was going to marry… to now getting asked “what’s your favorite color” on a first date. Godddd I hate dating sometimes

Ladies, if a man asks you out on a date but you aren’t available that weekend and you don’t offer an alternate date or time, should he ask again the next week…or ever?

Asker outers- make reservations. I’m tired of going to dinner or drinks and finding out my date’s plan is winging it and the place doesn’t have space. Make a reservation!! It takes one min!!

I am single and have a crush on my married coworker but I’m containing myself for all the right reasons

How is your firm dealing with COVID-19? (Lay-off, pat cuts, working from@home, etc)

Alright fellas, hims vs keeps?

I’m 25 and still have a good head of hair, but can see myself greying and feel like more and more hair is falling out every day. Not noticeable but have heard prevention is everything for this and am following the exact pattern my grandfather did, who had thick hair like mine and then was bald by 30.

Appreciate all you stylish folk and hope everyone has a great day.

Hi Fishes,

I have 1.6 years of experience in Java, Spring Boot, Angular, Microservices.

If I'm planning to switch how much CTC can I ask for?

Current CTC - 5.8LPA

What’s a good Corp Dev headhunter? Looking to leave M&A strategy / PE DD type of work at manager level

healthcare promotion from EM to SM in your firm? trying to calibrate expectations....

Associate at McK; made ~$220K cash TC (maybe 260k or so in 22).

Curious what roles in FAANG will allow me to maintain comp and work chill hours?

I have a STEM undergrad and 5 years of non consulting work experience. Very good at numbers, strong communication skills, decent at coding (but I don’t want to be a SWE or DS).

Tech company lay offs….are they soon to be inevitable?!

There is lots of companies really taking a hit in the tech space. Is this something that people are nervous about? Many seem to still be having a hiring push but with the button falling (IMO this is still just start we have a long way to go to bottom out) will that halt and layoffs ensue? And if so, which depts do you think will get hit the hardest?

Anyone have insight to what the plan is at UpStart for example?

Anyone have experience using GDS as a lead or key developer on RPA engagements?

Hi, I’m a tax professional but want to transition into a coding role such as bot coder and artificial intelligence. I’m really advanced with Excel and Alteryx, I even can create macros for my team and considered the technology rockstar. Do you recommend any certifications such as UIpath for my future career change? I’d also be interested in how to work for Google someday coding artificial intelligence and machine learning.

I was recently interviewing a very good candidate who was not only technically strong but also had a very good problem solving skill. Below is his yoe and tech stack
Total yoe 11, RPA 6(AA)
Certified in all AA versions.
CCTC 25LPA
Expecting 40LPA
I felt this is a desirable ask but we didn't have enough budget to accomodate. Now we are going back to drawing board to reshuffle the budget for next FY, what would be an apt scale for someone with the profile above?

If you contribute partially to traditional 401k & partially to Roth 401k at your company, does it get confusing at all when it comes time to withdraw? Is it better to (cont.)

If you take vacation, is the onus on you to make up that billable time? If so, how do you enjoy long vacations?

Hi fishes,

I am trying to download my salary certificate from the alumni portal (2016) but the pdf is password protected. I tried entering my employee id but it is not working. Can somebody help me with the password format?
Thanks and miss infy a lot

Hi! Which industry is your nonprofit in? I'm in the social justice advocacy space.

What is L2 interview in coforge? Will it be more of a technical round or some Senior Manager regarding other aspects?

I just completed the interview process at CGI, the HR called thereafter saying that I've cleared all the rounds and they'd like to give me an offer. They also sent a couple of mails for required documents. But I am yet to receive the offer letter, is this usual?

Has anyone gone from not being an active swimmer to being able to consistently exercise in the lap pool? I know it’s a great workout but I worry it’d be silly for me to try to get into it.

I am sex addict. I have to continue to remind myself that I am always in recovery. Had a major acting out a month ago, lost my fiancé and just taking one day at a time. That’s all I can do. Just remind myself so I don’t stop working

Plans fell through for this weekend. Any female fish want to hang out and grab dinner and drinks

Anyone wanna come over? Brooklyn

Whose up to watch the Euro finals tomorrow at a bar??? 32M here and relatively new to Manhattan

What’s the age group here? Any 30s 🐠🐟

I'm 40F. Any point to my being in this bowl? Not being facetious, just see a lot of chat here and in the WhatsApp group about how the people in their early 30s are old, so don't want to waste my or anyone else's time...

27, male looking for a doodle mommy ☺️

I have an unexpected take home case study interview that requires Tableau. Obviously Tableau is not just something people have on their personal computers due to the cost. How do I go about this?

Any fish in their 30s here?

Anyone wana be my friend? Moving to Jersey City the first week of April.

34F, currently in BK, moving to Jersey City by August 👩🏾‍💻

Alright having a 70’s dance party at home. Post if you are listening to anything or have any recommendations

This bowl is slowwww. Is there anyone that wants to spice it up and do something fun?

What’s everyone up to today?

Ladies and gents, what’s your
Age, Neighborhood
Ideal date age range
1 non-negotiable

Are you looking:
A - to date casually
B - to date casually but open to something serious
C - for something serious
D - other (specify if comfortable)

Anyone wanna come over? Brookyn

Ladies what are the best apps to find a one night stand with a normal guy?

What are the best sports bars to meet guys on a Sunday afternoon?

Any female fish want to go to the rangers game tomorrow night? FYI I am a penguins fan.

Any single woman up for a drink this evening? 🥳

So I just recently got into dating after a break up 3 months ago. I joined some dating apps and have been getting quite a few matches. I’ve never dated anyone like to a point of going on traditional dates. Basically, I have no clue what to do on a date once i have one planned. Like I’ve been on a few and it’s been just talking but I guess I have no clue what to do after. I’m probably just rambling at this point but basically I need advice on actual dates and how to feel it out and what to do. Ty