I’ve had a crush on a coworker forever and we’re stuck in this stupid small talk phase. I’m over analyzing and freeze up and don’t know how to push it forward. How do I get him to make the first move?

Matched with a guy on Tinder. Had a great first date. We are stilling chatting on WhatsApp. But he has disappeared from my tinder (presumably, he unmatched with me). Is it typical for ppl to unmatch on Tinder when they are still interested in you?

Last night I slept over my boyfriend’s apt. We are sexually active together but this time he woke up at 4/5am and started fingering me and eating me out. I was somewhat awake but I don’t know how to feel about this. Thoughts?

So… I sometimes squirt and I’m super nervous during sex because I don’t know how guys will react. Fellas, how would you feel if your sneaky link started squirting during a session at her place?

Anyone doing this consistently? Came across a guy whose wife in a facility and he's paying $12,000/month. Insanity.

For those who have gone from one big 4 to another…was it frowned upon by your superiors/looked at as a slap in the face, even if your intentions are to leave on good terms?

I am a woman who has been working as a tech PE investor for 8 months now, and have been feeling extremely discouraged by my experiences in this sector so far. I regularly get mistaken as the “administrative assistant” in meetings and email chains, have had things said to me by men such as “the only way you work in private equity is as a receptionist”, and have even been at networking events where men have literally grabbed my ass when no one was looking. Any advice on how to handle this?

What is your understanding of the norms around whose names end up on a brief/complaint/motion papers etc.? I’m a midlevel at an AmLaw 20 firm and have twice been the principal drafter of something only to be cut from the signature block. The associate senior to me is on it despite having done far less of the work. And it’s not because it required a rewrite or something. The filed product is 80-90% my work. Am I wrong to be pissed off about this?

I went to a masseur in LV last week and this massage turned sensual. He texts me today saying he’s HIV + undetectable and he tested positive for gonorrhea yesterday. This was my first such massage experience and I feel my world has fallen apart. Our genitals touched and kisses. I did my tests this morning and waiting for results. 😌😌 why didn’t he share this before booking an appt! 😭

Looking for some advice here: I work for a client that loves me & I love him back as well. Get along super well with the creative team and we’re like “one team” . However, I am having problems with the management of my agency. I thought of maybe talking with my client about it (the CMO) to see if he pressures the account MDs. Any tips on how to solve this situation?

Any single women like houses?

As a manager, how do you expect your employee to deal with a diffcult customer?

M here.

Anyone for catch up and explore good places evening or tomorrow?

So had client call, wrote down all my notes as they spoke. Confirm next day when everything is going to shit and they reply “this is categorically wrong what are you saying”. Contd in comments

I've been biking to my home office everyday so I've been wearing gym clothes and bringing a change of clothes with me. When I get in the morning how long can I sit at my desk before going to change?

Typical days on a difficult project with a difficult partner

Winter question: Are we supposed to keep dress shoes at work and wear gore-tex boots to and from?

How did you give notice you were lateraling to people you like? Particularly if you haven't been there that long?

I'm lateraling to another firm because frankly I think the management of this one is terrible, but the people (and individual partners) I actually work with are awesome. I've only been here for about 18 months, so I imagine that short time frame will make it extra awkward 😬

I've worked with the client for over 7 months now and he still calls me by my dad's name
What do I do 😭😂

Halloween parties in LA? Bars having events, etc

Do McKinsey make your own slides or do you outsource it all to your graphics team? Asking specifically for NA.

Any advice for a new instructional coach? I just accepted the job and am trying to get a head start over the summer!

How much does a Merrill performance coach make? Band 4

What software does your firm use and how do you like it? CRM, scheduling, virtual Meetings, Client Portal, consolidated statements, etc.

Can someone explain how PTO works in house? I have only ever worked at a firm, starting my first in house position end of this month. I’m used to just blocking off time on my calendar if I have an appointment (like the rare occasion I have a dental appointment, well child checkup, etc) and then going. Do I really need to take PTO for these things? I’ll be working remotely 3-4 days a week for reference and I’m talking about days when I’m remote.

how much package i can expect with total 6 year of experience includes web API development and 2 year of AWS experience on EC2, Fargate etc (certified with AWS developer) and 3 years of Onsite experience

Recent college grad with ~$25k in student loan debt and no investments. I have about $10k I want to invest but I have no idea where to start. Please help

In your opinion which is the best target fund to choose in IRA Roth?

Who else is most definitely going to be hungover at the office tomorrow morning and regret that last drink?

I have over 20,000 unread emails in my inbox.

I don’t have the relieving letter as of now.. it will take some time for my current organisation to release it.. how can i ho forward with the onboarding???

Hi, does anyone know when an employee becomes eligible for maternity/paternity leave at either Gilead, BMS, or Merck? For NVS, it’s day 1 of employment but not sure if that’s common within the industry.

For those of you without a home office: Where do you usually work? My desk is in my bedroom and I’m considering sacrificing aesthetic to move my set up elsewhere

Hello , I have received box from synechron even before joining. Should j be opening it I am not sure if I want to join

Is 33 too old for a nose piercing?

Weird Sunday night existential crisis.. Idk what to do next (cont’d in post)

Giving notice tomorrow. Accepted another offer. Nervous to tell my boss because I know I’ll be leaving them screwed but I’m miserable. Love my team. The client is stupid and the work is soul crushingly uncreative. But still feel guilty :(

I don’t understand people who choose the bathroom stall next to yours when EVERY OTHER stall is free

it’s been 3 years in this city and I really need to hang out with someone other than my boyfriend. But I’m terrible at “networking"

Feeling old. Selling my $4000 motorcycle and buying a $4000 couch.

Everyone is jumping ship and I want to join but this is my first job and haven’t even hit a year here

I can do my job better than 87 percent of the people who have my job title. Maybe 88 percent. Still unemployed

I absolutely HATE third party recruiters. They continuously waste my time, always slice my rate in half, and have never have solidified a project for me — PLEASE GO AWAY!

ahhhh.. I feel better now 💆🏻‍♂️

Pretty tired of always getting shamed for not having personal projects or other avenues of creativity.

I've been here (NYC) for 4 years already but for some reason I'm not happy. My first job out of college is okay but not thrilling. I have this constant sense of hopelessness and doom.

I wake up every night holding my breath lmao. Idk if that’s classic sleep apnea or if my body is subliminally trying to off itself while I’m not paying attention.

Anyone else’s boss make them work until 630 on a Friday every single week? Please save me.

Dreamt last night that we lost my account because my team thought the phone was on mute when talking shit... it wasn’t 😳

Dear group account director,
If I tell you click tags can’t be added in an edit, and u don’t trust me and ask the media agency. I can’t save you from embarrassing yourself and our agency.

Honestly how long have you been seeking a new job and to what extent are you searching... someone give me some hope

I started using a bidet and I’m never going back.

I’m at a point that I need to take Xanax regularly to get through my day. Seriously...ACCOUNT what is wrong with you? I’m type A, but yank that stick from your ass. You are UNBEARABLE!

Salary range for a jaded, disillusioned and lazy producer with questionable professional ethics. Oh yes, 10+ years (well maybe 6) experience in NYC. $200k seem about right? Asking for friend.

I don’t get paid to write advertising. I get paid to sit through meetings like these. Kill me.