Hi all ,I have a big concern about my ongoing marriage events. I got engaged a few days ago and after discussing with my girl I got to know she has been masturbating with around 100+ known guys on different social media.
They might have recorded her nudes too. This is confessed by her only.

I am very depressed now. Should I call this engagement off and talk to my family??

How can I approach my boyfriend who has an alcohol problem to help him get healthier ?

My SO adds very little to our relationship. She has a dead end job. I cook. I work. I oversee finances. I plan trips. She doesn’t have a voice in the relationship. I’ve asked her to give her perspective but she always defaults to mine bc she thinks I’m smarter/worldly. She feels intimated by me and my social circle. Lately, I’ve found myself thinking for her. Anticipating her wants and needs and then adjusting my behavior to meet them. Which she appreciates but it’s frustrating 29M 27F

GF is 32 and I’m 28. She wants kids within 2 years, understandably. I never envisioned having kids that early (more like late 30s), but I like her a lot. Anyone else gone through something similar?

What's your date of Jalsa??

Mid 40sF, recently separated, seeking intelligent convo. For the love of god, do not be dishonest. I don’t even care if you’re married and lonely. I get that. Looking for same age range.

How often do you have sex? How long have you been together? I’m lucky if I get it 1x a week and I’m getting frustrated.

Any female fish in Downtown SFO, want to grab a drink and bite? 30M here

31 F, looking to date seriously and have a true connection, Nj area

Well...I've finally made it in my marriage when we are reading each other's minds.

Why do some muslim men think that career women in their 30s become desperate and will significantly lower their standards? Someone with 3 kids that’s been divorced twice and isn’t even practicing just told my friend he’ll do her the favor of giving her children. The arrogance is mind boggling

Went on a short coffee date with a person who was nice, but I just don’t think we’re compatible. What’s a kind text I can send to explain, after they said we should see each other again?

Who is excited about first gay kiss in an Indian mainstream movie? (Watch trailers of Shubh Mangal Zyada Saavdhan)
SO looking forward to the controversies it’s going to generate!

Is there such a thing as over texting the person you like?

Single black female. Late 30s, no kids. Is it better to practice in a smaller market that’s close to major cities, lots of professional opportunities, but no real single professional scene? OR be in a bigger pond/major city with more professional and networking opportunities, oversaturated with lawyers of color, more competition for professional opportunities, but bigger dating pool?

Why are people so judgemental about poly relationships?

When did you know your firm wasn't right for you? I'm not sure if it's just the stress of being a new attorney with a family or if my job isn't the right fit. I work in civil litigation and am consistently below my billables. I can't stay late because my kids need me and I can't work on the weekends because I have to maintain my house and take care of my kids. I'm being constantly told to work harder, stay later, etc but it's not practical. Or am I not approaching this with the right mindset?

I’m keep getting flashbacks from my previous relationship. I want to report him for domestic abuse/date rape charges but I don’t know if it’s a wise idea esp after a whole yr

Has anyone found dating having kids challenging?

Hi Has anyone made the switch from a bank to BIG 4. I currently work in Market risk and have few offers from Consulting firms.
What should be considered while deciding ?

Hii all
I have 3 year of experience. Skill. Java backend developer.
Ibm is offering 13+1.5jb, 6b band application de
I have another offer 15fixed+1.5jb.
Will ibm match the offer letter?
Please reply.
TIA

Been away from SF for 8 months. How is SF now?

Hi all,

Please help in referring to infosys Chandigarh...
Yoe - 8.4
Domain - Network infra, cloud consultant, Infrastructure project management, project management

Thanks

Hi All,

Can I share the offer letter of one company with another even though private and confidential is mentioned in the offer letter

Anyone prepping for the SHRM-CP test? I’m taking a prep course this fall and would love tips or to know if there are any study groups out there!

Hi, I am bringing together a team through a reorg any suggestions on how to bring a new team together remotely?

Can provide more details if needed, but if an employee is constantly coughing at work (small retail establishment), is it okay to ask them for a doctor's note stating they aren't contagious? They're claiming it's due to allergies, but I've gotten several confidential concerns from employees and customers alike due to the current enviornment.

Does PHR certification help in India, as this is globally recognised how much valuable is this currently in indian job market.

Do we got some good offers or its another certificate just to add to CV after so much of investment & time I don't want to get this wasted !!

Need suggestions ??

What programs do my fellow HR managers recommend as far as personality assessments for hiring ?

What is a good gift for a recent vet school grad?

Everyone says Bangalore is all about South Indian food and a north indian can't resist in Bangalore is it so? If yes please tell me why? Because I am from uttrakhand and thinking about opportunities in Bangalore.

Can I get into m7 with a 3.5 gpa and 3 YOE at a T2 and tech startup - not a URM or have any hooks

Should you add your credentials in your email signature? Would love to hear your thoughts. I have an MBA mentioned in mine and I’ve heard mixed feedback about it on the internet. I value my education, also, they paid for my MBA so obviously they want employees to have one.