Hi Desi People, may not be a right forum.

I m looking for a brown/ Desi guy over age 41, single, looking for long term. I am 42 F, based in the US, and belong to North India.

I am open to a guy living and working in India....or the US.

Let's connect!

31M and bored in self quarantine. Any F looking to chat?

26/F Toronto, Indian, dangerously independent
Bored of insecure men on dating apps 🤷🏽‍♀️☺️

A lot of people in public end up in relationships together, why not jumpstart the process? Post your sex, age, interests, and city. PM each other if interested.

What do you do when you meet someone who absolutely loves some bollywood movie you find cringe. Help 😒

Stories of a Jax night out?

I'll go first: on a last night out for a navy guy I'd dated for like 6mo he dragged us to king street where i never enjoy, at the bar w the toss the ring game a couple was fucking in the bathroom and the guy in front of me in line was mad about it taking so long so he started banging on the door trying to break it down and started to fight them when they came out. So we escaped to kickbacks where a customer threw a drink at the waitress who subsequently pulled a 🔪

Anyone in Boston who's interested in meeting up?

Once when I was waiting tables, I had a guy pay me cash. The change was 45 cents, which I didn't give back to him because like who wants that. He then asked where the change was, and when I explained that I didn't give back the loose change, he made a big stink about how dollars and cents matter and didn't leave me a tip. He was a republican staffer on capitol hill.

After everyone gets vaccinated, thinking of starting a desi singles meet up. Details will be shared later. Who’s in?

Have a crush on my co-worker. He asked me out to go rock climbing one-on-one after we were texting for a while and I acted awkwardly when we went because I didn’t know if it was a date (nothing was explicitly said). Now I’m stuck in this weird limbo state where things have fizzled out but I’m re-reading texts and think he might’ve actually had a crush too and I pushed him away. Ambiguity sucks.

What are some of the cringiest/funniest things you’ve seen on a dating profile?

Which country is good for dating as in where can I get good girls to date outside India? If given an opportunity, which country you would like to move to?

“You have a good looking face. But your body is absolute junk."

So, this is a little awkward, but I recently moved to SD for a fresh start, and honestly, I love this city. My problem is I have been more of a homebody since I moved here and I'm a little intimidated to go out and meet people because I don't feel like I fit in here. I am overweight and this city is full of active, and attractive people. I guess I am wondering what my experience would be if I got out more? I feel like people look at me when I'm in public because I stand out due to my size.

I find dating apps to be unhealthy to an extent. If a minor inconvenience occurs, it's simple to move on to the next one and the cycle repeats. Have any of you met "the one" through a dating app?

Woman I went on one date with keeps me informed on what she's doing. I.e. Seeing her girlfriend or on her way to a birthday party. Not used to this level of transparency after just one date. We do have a second date planned. Thoughts?

Anyone want to go on a date today? 🤷🏻‍♀️

What are some good date spots in College Park, MD?

Saw a post in the confession bowl so I wanted to check this bowl out. Any hot, smart, rich and single guys in this bowl?😁

If you had to describe your dating life in one word, what would it be?

Matched with a girl on hinge. She’s catholic. We haven’t met yet and I offered to go to Mass with her so we could meet the old school way and she loved the idea and didn’t find it awkward 🥺

What companies easily start gc applications ?

How long does it take you to get your L1 after the 12 months? Is it a long processing time wait?

So has travel to USA for Indian citizens resumed (via Canada)? Any insights from anyone?

Want to book a parking spot in downtown Chicago, how can I get one with in and out privileges? Spot hero doesn't give me that info on In & Out privileges.

Best places to live in Boston close to Prudential Center?

Have you ever been chewed out?

Client sent over a 90 MB model this evening. Took 10 minutes to open and a fraction of that to crash. Can’t wait for tomorrow 😭

Am I able to access MyLearning before starting with Accenture? I received a Countdown to Accenture email and it included a piece about starting trainings before your first day, but both the link to MyLearning and the link to support for the link not working were unaccessible.

I have an interview with JP Morgan this week for a Channel Marketing Manager - VP role in the Asset Management area. The role will be based in NYC. Just curious what is the normal range for the base salary and total comp.

Have a big interview tomorrow. The question I dread the most is about why you’re looking for a new job. The honest answer is that there isn’t enough work to go around at my agency and I want to get ahead of the inevitable layoffs. What’s the best way to tell them this? Do I just make something else up entirely?

I travel a lot and have about 50k IG followers with high engagement. How do I contact companies and see if they want me to make a sponsored post?

what are the tax implications when you withdraw from your espp? what are the necessary steps you have to take so you don’t get overtaxed?

Can you get fired for having low utilization as a senior? My billable hours this busy season have been much lower than my peers.

My h1b got picked up in lottery this year but case hasn’t been processed yet. Meanwhile I also applied for H4ead extension. What happens to it when H1b gets approved?

What’s the general guidance on the order to maximize retirement contributions for tax benefits for an normal individual and for a self employed/small business owner before moving to taxable accounts or alternate vehicles like cash value life policies?
I’ve seen for individual: match trad 401k->match roth 401k->max roth IRA->max trad IRA->max trad 401k->max roth 401k->max HSA
For self employed: max SEP IRA/solo 401k->max roth IRA->max trad IRA->max HSA

Of course situations differ but in general?

Question for a friend's son who is an Indian citizen..has just graduated from college in California and looking for opportunities. In the interim how can he apply and get reasonable private medical coverage? Also can he apply for a non driver government ID in Los Angeles ?

I'm curious does anyone know any specific community for Indian tech people who want to immigrate? especially if they are going to immigrate to European companies.

I interviewed at company A and B. Company A sent me an offer, however I really want to work at company B, and they said they would get back to me last week and still have not even after following up. Is it pushy or frowned upon to tell company B that I got an offer from company A so can they hurry the hell up and tell me if I’m getting an offer from them. Company B also said there is still a round of reference checks left and the holidays are coming up.. help! What should I do?