Hi Fishes,

I need help, my manager is asking me to come to office and saying if I don't come then there would be consequences. I have already resigned and my last working day is in mid Dec (60 days of notice already served).

I told him I can't relocate because of family and financial constraints (because my father is not well) and that's the reason I have resigned.

He has asked me to drop a mail stating the reason of not coming to office.

Please help what should I write in the mail?

TIA

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Do they have the right to block FnF and relieving letter if I don't visit office?

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Nobody, NOBODY can stop your fnf. It'll be a matter of legal department if they do.
Don't worry, just stall them.

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Just try and email the genuine reasons and if you have proofs send them.if it's mot a big deal try and go to that location nd spend few days and get out of it.

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Why don’t you talk to HR ?

HRs are useless here tbh. Managers and Directors have all the power. My manager has said HR might get involved to which I said yeah sure I will talk to them. I don't understand why so much fuss for just 20 days

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If your father is not keeping well and you have relevant documents about his health, then drop an email to your manager and also loop HR into the email mentioning your reason for leaving. I would suggest first discussing with your HR and then dropping an email.

are they ready to reimburse your travel....

show orgin point as far end on one corner of the country and have it reimbursed ....that way you can have your own work vacation

Just wrote an email, I don't understand why employees like you hesitate to share information??

As a manager He has to be answerable and keep things on record so that He is not charged with unfair advantage towards you alone.

You need to write the true reason to not report to office. If you are not getting flight tickets,write down the same.

Hi <Manager>,

As discussed, this email is to confirm that I will not be able to relocate to <office location> at this stage due to personal circumstances. Please let me know if you have any questions.

Regards,
<Name>

Hi -----

This js regarding the Work to Office /relocation intimation. I would like to let you know that I am currently in my hometown.

Due to my personal circumstances I am unable to report back to office. I understand the importance of management decision regarding reporting to office,However my circumstances doesn't allow me to relocate leaving my ailing father/parents back .

I hope you understand the urgency of the situation and be considerate in your decision.

regards

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