How does everyone respond when they are misgendered at work? Do you ignore it or correct the person?

How do you like to get feedback from your cd? Is it helpful if they riff off a couple headlines as examples or would you rather just hear the feedback on yours?

Some partners are so stupid. In a free market system, if you want the good associate to work for you, you need to be a nice person. Otherwise, I have enough partners to feed me work and you’re the source of your own problem.

Hello. What's is type of shoes do you wear to work
Flats, heels or sneakers?

A company didn’t follow through with a scheduled intro phone call. I emailed during the time scheduled to see if something had come up & after as well to reschedule. No one answered me or followed up. I can’t help but feel like this is a little red flag. If you can’t follow though on an intro call… what’s your HR & the rest of the company doing? 😬

I lead a pretty good size team. One of the managers that I have under me, manages a team of 6 writers. This manager literally bites his nails/nail beds every day. Like to the point where they bleed. We are all grossed out and I cannot find a way to approach this conversation. Looking for tips or suggestions!

Any ideas on fun team bonding events/games to improve culture in a new remote tech startup? Very small team with long work hours, we are trying to build a people culture but hard because we can’t see much of peoples personalities through Zoom meetings much.

I am the only immigrant with an accent in my office and it’s almost a daily thing now that my bosses/coworkers would explain terms to me that I already know. I’d often freeze when they do that because my first reaction is always confused. How do you talk about it with them after the fact especially when it seems like it’s not a big deal to them?

Anyone get nervous before speaking in front of a group of people? I feel super embarrassed because sometimes when I’m super nervous my voice cracks and I’m worried other people can tell. Any strategies to fight this?

Colleague said “oh hello, who the fuck are you?” When I brought up what I guess was an unwanted opinion. This was years ago when I was more junior.

How do you deal with unapproachable managers/colleagues in a Jesus loving way?

How do you deal with rude patrons at restaurants?

Who here works in a warehouse? What is the correct etiquette to address a rude supervisor? He’s constantly getting on my last nerve.

How some people are clearing interview and then getting into a project even though they don't have any skills, no desire to learn new things, can't perform a very very simple task even though it's already documented clearly, totally burden on team members. They don't even try to do basic troubleshooting when they faced simple issues, rather asks stupid question to junior who is having only 1 years of experience and ask for solution.
I noticed this in every project I joined

I have an extremely difficult colleague that I cannot work with. He answers my questions with completely tangential information and i have to repeat questions multiple times before he answers them, easily the poorest communicator I have ever worked with.

The week he took as PTO was the best week of my career at Amazon and I was far more productive.

I don't think I can continue working here if I am working with him on a daily basis, but I don't want to be seen as a poor team player. Any advice?

I want one of those ‘introverted but willing to discuss’ shirts to wear to work.. insert tax or audit 😂

Share your introduction and about your company in 2-3 sentences.

Fell into a deep depressive suicidal hole and missed work for two days. Honestly surprised I woke up the second missed day, took a bunch of pills. Now need to face family and work. Don’t know what to do next.
What do I even say to my manager? Do I just show up and not say anything? How will this hurt my career?
My family I know it would hurt but I can be honest there at least. Plan to speak to family once I can come to terms with being alive.

Kippot — do any of you wear one at client sites? How do you message that with your firm and the client firm if there’s comments?

I don’t have the personality to be in PA but I love this job and want to stay here as long as I can. How do I conquer my introverted ness and make it less cringe-y and awkward?

Interviewed with a VC today and fretting over a recent question. Thoughts/feelings/concerns appreciated!

How do you deal with a senior member of the team that doesn’t value your input? I’d love to be more involved but I feel like I’m not given a chance to

Looking for a small pouch with strap/wristlet that I can keep in my work bag to help organize that bag but also can carry separately when I need to do things around the office and carry just my phone/small wallet/access card. Budget is approx 1K - any recs? Thanks!

BGC team of tcs is asking for bank account statement of my first company that was 7 years back..
My that account is closed. So cannot show them details. Will it cause any issues..?
Have already shared offer letter/reliving letter/experience letter and payslips..

What did you say when someone asks you why you want to leave your current position?

Have you been invited to join The Human Gathering?
Did you do it? Was it worth it?

Deloitte folks - How can I tell whether a job posting will serve commercial or public sector clients?

Completed my loop with meta and the recruiter wants to connect via phone. Do they call to reject? 😢

Starting to look for homes- $650K gross income with minimal debt and Nerdwallet is saying a a $2.29M and below home would be “affordable”…that seems super high to me, am I wrong?

How many hours a week do you work and how often do you work weekends?

Firms like K&E and LW have huge summer batches this year, which I assume were made in anticipation of consistent high deal activity, however, that has slowed down. What are the chances that return offer rate falls below 100%? Kirkland & Ellis

Mtl folks who had their year end talk - satisfied? Title/paybump%

Hey all - does anyone have experience working with Pinnacle Home Care in Florida? Their offer seems too good to be true and I’m wondering what the catch may be

How long after a round 1 interview would you typically hear back? Had mine today.

Does PwC provide mental health services? I have been struggling with depression lately and might need some help.

Any single, queer ladies here? 🔍

Who’s going to Puerto Vallarta for holidays and NYE?

1- If you got the 🐒🦠 vaccine I am happy for you, but remember that most people don’t have access to it right now, so when you post your selfies on Instagram it makes people feel bad; 2- people with husbands/in a relationship, it would be helpful if you could wait to get your vaccines. Some of us are single/dating. I just saw some “hubbies” on social media who posted they got vaccinated and doesn’t seem right to me. Kthxbye.

Thirsty fish, who’s in NYC this week? :)

Anyone going to Chicago pride this weekend?

Anyone thinking about having a baby with a surrogate even being single in late 30s and a busy consultant?

Looking for some advice. As a member of LGBTQ, is it better to work for smaller or larger firms? In terms of Overall equality, culture, support & embracing diversity.

Also specifically at banking/PE/VC funds in NYC. Appreciate your thoughts and experiences.

Gay couple moving to Toronto. Any suggestions for lgbt friendly neighbourhoods within reasonable price range?

Anyone play tennis in ATX?

Anyone else 🤤 when American Ninja Warrior comes on?

Why is it so hard to find a relationship? Is it a corporate thing?

Whenever I was on date with guys, they always invited me to their home 😅😅. I’m quite sensitive about “home” lol. Or when I go to bar/ club, I met some guys they also invited me to their home too. although I told them I was looking for relationship (I need to be loved 🥺🥺). They told me “it is a quiet place we can chat” lmao. I always try to stay away from home when dating for a few months lol. Do you guys have the same problem? What do you normally answer to them?

lol so on gay tiktok there’s this trend of videos basically saying “if you have a clear phone case, you know you’re gay”

ironic given I have a clear phone case. Is this a thing tho ? If so, I had no clue

Hi. Im a 28 yo girl and am very much bi-curious/questioning. I developed a slight crush on one of my friends who I had met in college and became really close with during the pandemic. She lives in NY and I live in South FL. Over the past 5 months we’ve spoken on the phone for hours almost every night and are constantly texting. We are both single and identify as straight. She has never mentioned her interest in women but I feel like she’s picked up on me being bi-curious. *CONT IN COMMENTS*

Can straight people discuss their romantic interests here. Would guys mind.

I want to settle down and have a family, but I think I’m too picky.

Deloitte 🌈🐠 - raise your hand if you are going to DU this week!