I don't understand people who aren't on social media. Matched with two guys this week, and neither of them have Instagram or Snapchat. It's so hard to look them up and gauge their personality before..

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That's absurd! You realize people found "love" without social media?

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if you think you will know what a person is all about from Snapchat and Instagram- you are dead wrong. Try going in with an open mind and having a conversation. Fkn millennials!

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Wow, you could be missing the love of your life with that attitude. Maybe they have actual lives so they don't feel the need to be on the pretend versions.

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Damn .. looks like you'll have to figure out how to talk to them, get to know them, and decide if you want to go any further... i think this used to be called dating... but social media has ruined that concept for whatever it is we call swiping, stalking, and ghosting today...

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Lol at the fact that OP "can't understand" how someone could live without Snapchat or Instagram. I just vomited in my mouth

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I don't have snap chat or insta but I do have a facebook.. I just can't be bothered to manage too many social media accounts.. rather have a well documented repository of pictures etc on just one (and that's facebook).

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You get to know them by getting to know them in person! I never give strangers/online dates access to my social media pages/accounts. I feel that's too personal and anyone trying to get to know me that way is bypassing the whole process.

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Snapchat is dumb - I don't need to see a photo or video of what you are doing, it isn't that important

Instagram, again - I know what food looks like and don't need to see yours

FB contains more legit info but you could also actually talk to someone and learn about them that way

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You should watch black mirror season 3 episode 1

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^^ I'd look positively at someone who doesn't feel the need to broadcast and humblebrag about everything in their life. You sound shallow and attention seeking, OP.

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Maybe they found you and deleted their social existence

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What are you, 16? I've never looked up someone I didn't know on Instagram or Snapchat. As long as they have Facebook, that's pretty much enough.

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25, never used twitter, instagram, or snap chat in my life. I do have facebook but 90%+ of my activity happens via private messages and groups

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Contd..taking it any further !

Maybe they are and you just can't find them?

^ Maybe :)

I'm not cutting them off just cos they don't have social media. As someone who's heavily dependent on it, I just don't understand how people do without it. Definitely not saying ones better than the other.

Isn't snap chat fleeting anyway? Like it's very temporary right? What's the point then? It's like pouring water onto the sand.. insta I can get, with the filters and everything

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