I just can’t deal w this job today. I have to find a way to quit this job.

It’s not just the hours and insane deadlines. It’s that, coupled with immense toxicity coming from the head MD. The lack of mid-level support. The lack of coaching.

The sad part is the actual work is interesting. But officially, there’s no amount of money you can pay me to keep doing this. I’m done and burnt the f out. 90+ this week.

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90+ hrs a week is insane.

65-70 means you have majority of your weekends! I’d love to have that, i’m regularly at 85-90. But tbh idk if i’d do this job at 55-60hrs (assuming pay declines proportionately)

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A1- the job is intellectually stimulating. I’m not just a processor of data. I have to think about the deal issues and positioning, drive project management, continuously learn new developments about the industry, among others. But all that stimulation gets crushed as a result of the toxicity and unreasonable expectations. That makes this job bullshit (for me). That said, I recognize this works for some people. I’m starting to recognize it is not for me. And I have to put my health, marriage, life > IB.

There are other ways to make a decent living.

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Nothing is worth 90+ hours ever. They would dump you in a heartbeat if they needed/wanted to, you can’t ever forget that.

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i agree.

What about the work is interesting to you? Im genuinely curious

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your mental health is more impt. start looking around or just quit. listen to yourself.

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In IB/M&A?

Feeling the same thing. Giving my two weeks this week and on to better things. Even with a pay-cut, having agency over my non-working hours is just more important to me at this point.

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Also did not do strat and ops before banking, started out in M&A.

What was the final straw for you? I want to quit but I’m too scared to. Need some encouragements.

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Just do it! Swish

Do you think it would be worth it under a different MD?

Agreed but a bad md with bad client management can lead to additional unnecessary hours.

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