I live in Scottsdale Az and today my hubby and I went to brunch. The host wouldn't stop bothering us and other staff continued to interrupt our meal while we were eating. I wasn't even able to finish my food. It was clear they didn't want us there but we ate and took our time regardless. I'm comfortable being a disruption by doing absolutely nothing. If hating me/ my hubby makes them feel happy/ at peace...... then hate me harder. I'll always be this gay and unthreatened bb💖🎆🌈

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How were they bothering you?

The host came out to the patio to scold my husband for vaping outside( which is fine cause some places care some don't). Then went back inside and came back out and just stared at us. Once he went back in another member of the staff was member to "check in" on as he said. Then 3 minutes after getting out food another worker came up to me and just kinda loudly said are you working many times. I was confused and trying understand the question but replied with yes im still working on my food. Then waitress who mostly was not tending to us at all came up asked if I wanted a box right and check after that other staff member walked away. We were bothered/ interrupted so many times that I didn't eat really any of the food I ordered nor did I fully drink my mimosa. 10 out of 10 wouldn't reccomed

Why did you jump to the conclusion that it was because you are in a same sex relationship?

Because all of the non same sex couple got great service, were vaping on the patio and the staff didn't bother them. Not jumping to conclusions but definitely aware of what is happening around me

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