I need tips on online dating. Been in a new city for almost 6 months now and see no compatibility with the guys!

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This will sound SO cheesy, but my best friend’s fiancé told me 3 years ago (when they first met) to “be open”! It was a joke at the time, but it’s been such good advice! Be open to differing opinions (as long as it’s not offensive), be open to varying heights/body types and truly pay attention to their behavior. I wish I picked up on the behavior cues sooner - if someone isn’t responsive or showing interest, chances are they aren’t the person for you. Hang in there - you will find someone! Be patient and know they are out there

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So, you’re single? 😉

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New York City? OP are female or male? Male you will have the best time..

How will males in NYC have the best time?

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