I recently changed my last name. When my husband and I got married over 20 years ago we talked about what legacy we would leave it children... Would it be in the form of a company, a brand, or what? We came up with a name that was the second half of my first meme combined with the second half of his first name. We didn't yet know how we were gonna use it... But we had named our legacy. Over the past couple years, as things like 23 and me have become more popular, we started...cont'd

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We started looking at the legacy of the family name we have. We're black American. Slaves weren't given last names... Only first names. After the civil war and the emancipation proclamation, freed slaves needed to be given last names in order to be granted citizenship. Most were given either the name of their plantation or the name of their owner as their last name. We no longer want that remnant of slavery in our family. Not only did I change my last name, but so did my husband and children. It's been a journey, but we are free.

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