Idk why people need to say they are looking for “emotional monogamy.” You’re either in a monogamous relationship or an open relationship. Stop the madness, please!

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Because they're different?

Sexual and romantic love are not the same thing, and it's perfectly reasonable to have different wants/needs for them.

What does it matter to you, anyway? If you're not interested in understanding what they want out of a relationship, they're not going to be interested in a relationship with you either way.

(I say this as someone in a fully open relationship.)

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They aren't "admitting" anything by lying about what they want from a relationship, which is what you're telling them to do.

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What about , “ethical emotional non-monogamy”? I think most people subscribe to this. Everyone flirts and has crushes - relationship or not.

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Baiting because single monogamous people are tired of the dating apps being taken over by the open relationship crowd.

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A fine-grained filter will reduce monthly users and user app time, which works against their business model.

Dating apps keeps some users searching for a better mate or dating/more experiences, which delays commitments. There’s less incentive to invest time in relationships. The fantasy of finding someone better persists.

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