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Don’t ask a third time. Turn it around on her and ask her to reach out when she has time but drinks are still on you or sth etc…
So I'm in the exact same situation as you and that girl, OP. The guy I'm talking to has tried to meet up twice and I said no because I wasn't ready. He's confident/knows exactly what he wants and I'm introverted and kinda self conscious/shy. I'm very interested in this guy but I'm not sure it's coming across that way. He asked to meet a third time and I suggested a date this time.. for a few weeks out to mentally prepare lol.
I think it varies from person to person, but at some point, you've gotta put the ball in her court so that she knows to either make a move or you'll be gone. That realization will really get the ball movin' 😅
Update - as I went back home for holidays. She left it at “I will see you when you get back”. Meaning I still don’t think she will initiate a date or time ever. The 3rd will definitely still be on me
So there it is, OP. She's not interested. Stop banging your head against the wall and move on.
She is likely looking for better options but want to string you along as a plan b (or c or d or e). Why couldn’t she go the first two times (work, sick, something that makes sense)? If she really wanted, she would have found time.