I’m currently 8 months pregnant and going to start my maternity leave in 2 weeks. But since I’ve told my manager that I’m pregnant shit has hit the fan and it feels like they’ve been making a mountain out of mole hills. HR is asking me to make a “commitment” about collaboration. It feels like a weird trap where they want something in writing from me. (I am also the top performer on my team and had my best performance of 2023 in Q4). Any advice?

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