I’m posting this here because I’m not quite sure where else to share it. Through marriage, I’ve come into a substantial amount of wealth. We own a house valued at $800k, with $300k remaining on the mortgage at a 2.5% rate, and there’s $1.8 million in an investment portfolio, along with education accounts set aside for our future children (so we won’t need to worry about private school or uni costs). This wealth came from her grandparents’ inheritance, which she only received later in life….

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I agree, nothing happens unless God wants to to happen.

Focus on your relationship with God.

Thats a one on one relationship, which requires a relatuonship with the Holy Spirit.

If you are walking in the
Spirit , there is no shame or fear.

Everything belongs to him and you are a temporary steward.

You will be judged on how you use your time here.

We all are called to share the word and bear fruits in the spirit.

No matter how much wealth you accumulate or inherit, the goal is the same for all of us.

All of us are called to be content in our condition.

Blessings

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YES! This is a great response. I would suggest praying about it and talking with your spouse and letting the Lord decide what you should do with the wealth next. Something good will certainly come of it

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Part 2: She grew up fairly modestly. I’ve been working in consulting for three years now and make a decent salary of $125k, but I grew up middle class, working since I was 15, and I had to take out student loans—though not a huge amount. While I want to lead our household, it’s still surreal to grasp how much wealth we’ve accumulated at just 29 years old. It sometimes feels like I’ve skipped a step in life, and the thought that this wealth could continue to grow with future payments is overwhelming I know I’m blessed, especially considering my background where money was never abundant, but it has caused me to reflect on my priorities. How can I use this position to better glorify God? I also recognize that so many couples, especially in today’s economy with rising housing prices, are struggling with finances, so I feel guilty even typing this out. It’s not something I can really share outside of my wife and me, as I don’t want to be judged differently by my friends or family. We both live very modest lives and live off of our income without touching these accounts but I almost feel guilty for having it. Especially in our life group at church and other family/siblings around me struggling to purchase a house let alone for save for retirement.

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First country issues it seems. Build a church? Idk, something crazy that would fulfill your human duty. I'm more younger in experience, but if I'm in your position, I'd share the blessings on others. Create support or charity initiatives on third world country, Create programs for people who are unfortunate (hunger, education), etc.
Happy to chat :)

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I agree with A1 - give where you can and thank God everyday for it.

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