I’m seeing a guy he had a misdemeanor when he was very young for drunk and resisting to cop, but he’s late 30s now and has a corporate job and owns a 2bed condo in city, should I over look his past? Wouldn’t that show up in background checks?

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Well…it’s a hell of a lot better than the poor sod who was asking here last week how to explain his sexual assault conviction.

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Are you a cop?

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Is doing background checks now routine when dating? How does someone obtain this report? What if the person has never been arrested, but has a low credit score? Do you request copies of tax returns too? Asking for a friend...

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Like 1/2 my ex gfs have had DWIs and I never asked myself anything remotely like this.

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Yeah it’s weird. This obsession with wanting to know everything about someone’s past.

How long have you been "seeing" each other? (Is "seeing" a euphemism for something else?) You mention his apartment - are you ready to move in together, or is it convenient to crash there after work? We need more info...

A little over a month dating

How old are you, what is your current living situation, and how far away do you live from his condo?

34 and live like 7 miles

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