Is it just me or do people not know when to pause in 1:1 zoom convos? I feel like so many of my calls are monologues when it needs to be a 2 way discussion. This has nothing to do w seniority btw - I notice it with junior and same level colleagues as with more senior folks. I am a woman - notice it with male and female colleagues.
I absolutely hate interrupting people but sometimes I have to.
Thoughts? Advice?

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Yes I have noticed it in certain teams - especially the male/female dynamic. Sometimes having a conversation one on one to make them aware or asking the leader of the group to set expectations can help. If that doesn’t work, keep getting in there and make your voice heard! Good luck!

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Thanks Lisa. As I mentioned this does not seem to be a gender or seniority bias… I think just general zoom struggles. Wonder if there is a good resource online

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I have a hard time interrupting more senior colleagues even when they’ve been rambling without making a useful point for a long time and we’re running out of time on the call. Haven’t gotten over that innate hierarchical bs I guess

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I look at the desktop clock, and if a dialogue turns to a monologue beyond like 2 minutes (depends on complexity of the topic), I’ll interject.

Need to keep the dialogues going, no time for rants with back to back meetings all day.

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